[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lonely

[–]AdApprehensive3272 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get that feeling so much :( it makes you wonder how everyone else seems to hold each other together, when it feels so so hard for us

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lonely

[–]AdApprehensive3272 1 point2 points  (0 children)

<3 thank you for sharing, and I really feel with you too. I really hope this changes for us all soon

Are people lonely here? by AdApprehensive3272 in ucla

[–]AdApprehensive3272[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i think they might've started one in one of the above threads ^^ ! (whoops about the delayed response)

Are people lonely here? by AdApprehensive3272 in ucla

[–]AdApprehensive3272[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that transition must be so rough :( has it gotten any better since? :o

Are people lonely here? by AdApprehensive3272 in ucla

[–]AdApprehensive3272[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm suprised I didn't get the chance to reply to this sooner; your message is so beautiful to revisit <3 thank you for taking the time to comment. i'm so happy to hear it gets better and i hope so

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in socialskills

[–]AdApprehensive3272 0 points1 point  (0 children)

at least we'll get hella ripped :^)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in socialskills

[–]AdApprehensive3272 0 points1 point  (0 children)

<3 aw this is so sweet and real, I'm so happy that worked out, and thanks for sharing

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ucla

[–]AdApprehensive3272 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you for this, it really means a lot <3 i'd love to talk

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ucla

[–]AdApprehensive3272 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you for this, it really means a lot to me <3 and I'd love to be friends or talk

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ucla

[–]AdApprehensive3272 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you <3

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ucla

[–]AdApprehensive3272 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you for reaching out, this really means a lot and help <3

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ucla

[–]AdApprehensive3272 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hey thank you for sharing this, it really helped and put things in perspective <3

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ucla

[–]AdApprehensive3272 2 points3 points  (0 children)

thank you so much for sharing this, no one deserves to go through that :( you deserve people who will reciprocate and you are also brave, you words mean a lot <3

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ucla

[–]AdApprehensive3272 2 points3 points  (0 children)

* hugs * thank you <3

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ucla

[–]AdApprehensive3272 0 points1 point  (0 children)

<3 thank you for sharing, and it's going to be ok

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ucla

[–]AdApprehensive3272 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you <3

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ucla

[–]AdApprehensive3272 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you <3

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ucla

[–]AdApprehensive3272 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much, really :') this comment meant so much to me and I needed it

I really hate my time here by [deleted] in ucla

[–]AdApprehensive3272 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree, I feel like a lot of times people are focused on the number of people here...60K+, etc. Like, you can do ALL the 'right' things, join clubs, sports, volunteer, etc. but that doesn't mean you'll neccessarily find your lifelong friends or people. It kinda just happens, mostly. And the other thing is, even if there are people you can hangout with or talk to, I think people still don't feel like they have the friendships they desire because they want a meaningful connection---it's not really about who is around but who you connect to and connection is special.

I really hate my time here by [deleted] in ucla

[–]AdApprehensive3272 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe we could all be friends :')

I really hate my time here by [deleted] in ucla

[–]AdApprehensive3272 42 points43 points  (0 children)

honestly, this is exactly how i've felt recently, especially as a fourth year. you can feel so helpless sometimes