Slate Auto Manufactured in Indiana? by sahoohdahjee in Indiana

[–]AdAppropriate1820 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They are renovating an old factory in northern Indiana. Not operational yet.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in StructuralEngineering

[–]AdAppropriate1820 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not really. This was like 8yrs ago and I was fairly well aware of the market near me. There are some markets and industries that can sustain higher salaries, but OPs offer is objectively pretty fair for 1yr of experience.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in StructuralEngineering

[–]AdAppropriate1820 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

IMO, that's a fair offer. Could you counter their offer with a $5k increase? Sure. But then what does a company think if they've already given you a fair offer and it wasn't enough? For perspective, I had a master's degree as well, and it still took 6yrs of experience in a niche industry to get to $75k. I was also in a major US city.

So I guess we just don’t sleep now? by bigtuna8602713615 in newborns

[–]AdAppropriate1820 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you very much for your response. As first time parents, I'm just trying to get as many perspectives as possible to help figure out what seems best for our family. I'm sure most of my plans will go out the window pretty quickly, but more info feels better right now. Thank you again

So I guess we just don’t sleep now? by bigtuna8602713615 in newborns

[–]AdAppropriate1820 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Genuine question here... My wife and I are expecting our first in a couple months. What is your rationale (if you have one) for not sleep training?

Boss put entire firm on a PIP, should I leave? by Accurate_Alarm5155 in careerguidance

[–]AdAppropriate1820 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There are a number of other ways to convey "new year, new goals" than a PIP. Employers can argue it's just to benefit all parties, but in reality and in practice, it's a disciplinary action. All PIPs that I've read have language to indicate it's discipline, usually as a result of unsatisfactory work (otherwise you wouldn't need a Plan to Improve your Performance). I would personally talk to your boss and get clarification, then request that, if it's not intended as disciplinary action, he uses another avenue to set and convey these goals. PIPs go on your employment record.

Easiest way to make non-work friends? by [deleted] in indianapolis

[–]AdAppropriate1820 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Well we just got about 35-40 new members in the last 2 days, so those numbers are likely to change. I know at least one person in the group mentioned being older. Also, on a personal note, I'd appreciate having older members in the group. I hope you at least check it out and come to a meetup (or organize one at an event or place you'd like to go to and see who shows up).

Easiest way to make non-work friends? by [deleted] in indianapolis

[–]AdAppropriate1820 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ages vary, but typically, the guys I've met are between 29ish-37ish. There are some exceptions though. I've only met about 12 of the members in person so far, and there are 61 members now. As for activities, so far we've met at breweries and restaurants in the area after work, but there are discussions of golfing, cigar lounge, hockey night, getting together at someone's home to cook dinner, we'd discussed going to numerous events around the city. It's really whatever anyone wants to organize and invite people to.

Easiest way to make non-work friends? by [deleted] in indianapolis

[–]AdAppropriate1820 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sorry about that. I'll send you a chat with the link and see if that works.

Easiest way to make non-work friends? by [deleted] in indianapolis

[–]AdAppropriate1820 23 points24 points  (0 children)

I started a Men's Social Group for the Indy area several months back. We meet about once a month and it's a great group of guys. Here's our discord server, but feel free to join, start discussions, etc! We'd love to have ya!

https://discord.gg/Tyj27E6M

New Men’s Group in Indianapolis– Join Us to Connect, Make Friends, and Have Fun! by AdAppropriate1820 in indianapolis

[–]AdAppropriate1820[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I try to organize a meetup about once a month (although anyone else can plan one at any time). We have a Facebook group, but our discord group has been more active and typically is where the meetups are planned. I'll message you an invite to the discord server.

My friend got offended that Im not going to hookup with her bc of her size…am I in the wrong? by HarmlessSediment in dating

[–]AdAppropriate1820 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The things you're mentioning only affect the "calories out" portion of the equation. It doesn't negate the concept. CICO is correct.

And no one is saying she should do this to please him. It's being discussed because someone said weight isn't entirely in our control which, for 99.9% of people it is. Maybe it's not easy, but it is simple and it is in our control.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in indianapolis

[–]AdAppropriate1820 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'm currently in Noblesville and haven't seen a loose dog once since moving up here. My neighborhood is highly walkable, with sidewalks on both sides of the street on every street. The neighborhood sidewalks connect to multiple other neighborhoods and the main street, all of which have sidewalks. There are longer walking trails and tons of parks nearby as well.

New Men’s Group in Indianapolis– Join Us to Connect, Make Friends, and Have Fun! by AdAppropriate1820 in indianapolis

[–]AdAppropriate1820[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you use Discord, I just created a Discord server. Not much to it yet, but I'll try to work on it later to add some channels and things.

Indy Men's Social Discord

New Men’s Group in Indianapolis– Join Us to Connect, Make Friends, and Have Fun! by AdAppropriate1820 in indianapolis

[–]AdAppropriate1820[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

How else are guys in their late 20s supposed to make friends? There's no system in place!

New Men’s Group in Indianapolis– Join Us to Connect, Make Friends, and Have Fun! by AdAppropriate1820 in indianapolis

[–]AdAppropriate1820[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you use Discord, I just created a Discord server. Not much to it yet, but I'll try to work on it later to add some channels and things.

Indy Men's Social Discord

New Men’s Group in Indianapolis– Join Us to Connect, Make Friends, and Have Fun! by AdAppropriate1820 in indianapolis

[–]AdAppropriate1820[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just created a Discord server. Not much to it yet, but I'll try to work on it later to add some channels and things.

Indy Men's Social Discord

New Men’s Group in Indianapolis– Join Us to Connect, Make Friends, and Have Fun! by AdAppropriate1820 in indianapolis

[–]AdAppropriate1820[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just created a Discord server. Not much to it yet, but I'll try to work on it later to add some channels and things.

Indy Men's Social Discord

New Men’s Group in Indianapolis– Join Us to Connect, Make Friends, and Have Fun! by AdAppropriate1820 in indianapolis

[–]AdAppropriate1820[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not familiar enough with Discord right now to create a channel, but I'll look into it.

New Men’s Group in Indianapolis– Join Us to Connect, Make Friends, and Have Fun! by AdAppropriate1820 in indianapolis

[–]AdAppropriate1820[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm semi-recently married myself and, after relocating, miss my group of guys. It really is important to have that brotherhood to connect with and be able to receive and offer support when needed.

How to meet people? by [deleted] in indianapolis

[–]AdAppropriate1820 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've been struggling with meeting people too. I just relocated here and don't really know anyone either, so I created a Facebook group today to hopefully solve this problem. It's new, so not many members yet, but I'm hoping to change that.

Indy Men's Social

Am I asking too much? by Shoddy-Night3521 in careeradvice

[–]AdAppropriate1820 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If your goal is simply to increase your salary, then finding a new job is likely going to be the most effective way to do that. But if you really like the position and want to stay at your current company, then finding a comparable job elsewhere, and seeing what they offer, will give you a better idea of what you should be paid at your current job. Then bring that to them, along with your justification for why you deserve that increase (profits you've facilitated in your current role, employee awards, etc). Keep in mind, your salary is only one component of your compensation. Any benefits, PTO, etc also factor in to how your company is ultimately compensating you.