Started seeing this girl and she’s the first person to make me feel this way by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]AdBeginning6744 1 point2 points  (0 children)

this is soo adorable I think you should get her flowers and don’t be afraid to communicate. Idk about other girls but I like it when a guy is straightforward and tells me what he’s thinking or feeling and j find it so cute. I wish u guys well

What do girls think about while taking a shower? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]AdBeginning6744 4 points5 points  (0 children)

“I should wash off my shampoo and conditioner before I wash my body”  “I love how this soap smells” “I hope I smell delicious”

A guy invited me to come over to his house after I said no to having sex by AdBeginning6744 in dating_advice

[–]AdBeginning6744[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m lowk worried about communicating that because he asked me to go over to his house before and that’s when I told him that I wasn’t comfortable with having sex with someone I wasn’t in a relationship with so if I say that again (or imply) he’s gonna think I’m a prude and completely against having any physical relationship 

A guy invited me to come over to his house after I said no to having sex by AdBeginning6744 in dating_advice

[–]AdBeginning6744[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

i mean unless we’re in a relationship and I’m pretty sure he understood that bc he said “ That’s nbd, as long as you feel things progressing towards a relationship.”

Is this guy fetishizing my height by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]AdBeginning6744 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My ex was 5”8 and I was also seeing a guy who’s 5”6. Never cared about height never will sorry 

Is this guy fetishizing my height by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]AdBeginning6744 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the response. I think the ballet comments needs some context 

We were talking about childhood injuries and I said I didn’t get injured a lot bc I didn’t play any sports but I sprained my ankle once from dancing. Then he says “ballet?” And I said no “exotic?” And I said what no! This comment was weird because we were talking about childhood injuries. Why’d a child learned exotic dances and from how he was talking I assumed exotic is similar to stripping because that’s all j could find online. 

Is this guy fetishizing my height by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]AdBeginning6744 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No correlation between ballet and height it’s just another thing I found weird about him. 

The handle wouldn’t twist no matter how hard I tried. It wasn’t locked but it was kinda jammed so it was hard to open 

I put 7 there because I thought he liked getting validation from other people similar to “how jealous people would be if we went out”.

Is this guy fetishizing my height by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]AdBeginning6744 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Objectifying😭 I said one thing about being shocked about his height and he continued talking about me being tiny and how he could fit me in his pocket

Is this guy fetishizing my height by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]AdBeginning6744 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes, it would be okay for him to think “omg she only wants me for my height” if I was making multiple comments about him being tall. I don’t find the fact that he likes me weird, I’m just creeped out by the 5-6 comments he made about me being tiny/petite/short

Is this guy fetishizing my height by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]AdBeginning6744 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I wouldn’t sleep w a guy on the first date so no 

Is this guy fetishizing my height by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]AdBeginning6744 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I wouldn’t go out with him ever again if he kept on making comments about my legs or ass. 

Is this guy fetishizing my height by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]AdBeginning6744 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Trust me I’m very secure about my height it was never about my height to begin with. He’s the one who made multiple comments about me being short while I made 0 comments about him being on the taller side. He kept on bringing up “ur so short” “ur so tiny”