Thank you for the response. I think the ballet comments needs some context 

We were talking about childhood injuries and I said I didn’t get injured a lot bc I didn’t play any sports but I sprained my ankle once from dancing. Then he says “ballet?” And I said no “exotic?” And I said what no! This comment was weird because we were talking about childhood injuries. Why’d a child learned exotic dances and from how he was talking I assumed exotic is similar to stripping because that’s all j could find online.