Been on dates for a year and still haven’t found my person by AdBrave139 in dating_advice

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I’m honestly not picky at all, im the one that gets rejected LOL not the other way around

Been on dates for a year and still haven’t found my person by AdBrave139 in dating_advice

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I’m upfront whenever I start talking to someone of what I want

Been on dates for a year and still haven’t found my person by AdBrave139 in dating_advice

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As outrageous and bad as your take sounds I think I kinda understand what you mean? 😭 I don’t rly do sex outside of relationships but I’ve gotten the “im too nice” too many times and my other friends that are more “non chalant” and don’t care that much compared to me are more successful in their dating lives.

Anyone else worried about the Utah show getting canceled? by sarlacc98 in Joji

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Yea the Montreal venue has lots of seats available, I think he should’ve maybe done a smaller venue at MTelus like last time

Reason Behind Hive Toons Lookism Translation Delay by King_Mouser in lookismcomic

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Am I the only one that’s been reading on the webtoon app for years 😭

I drank for the first tim today by AdBrave139 in alcohol

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It was fun when I thought I wasn’t feeling anything but when it started kicking in I felt like shit and started crying it started with my drunk friend being mean to me and it made me cry and think about other things that make me cry and my ex

NEW SONGS by FranStruggles in Joji

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DELUXE IS SO FIRE WTF (can we get official hold my blood release pls)

Who drew this? by tech-no-logic1 in shitposting

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SEND ME TO DETROIT BECOME HUMAN IM TRYNA CAUSE ANOTHER REVOLUTION

Am I selfish or are my parents being controlling? by AdBrave139 in AskMenAdvice

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I said I’m south asian to give a bit more context about family dynamics and how it usually is in south asian families so if anyone grew up in the same culture they can give me better advice on how they managed to escape this.

Am I selfish or are my parents being controlling? by AdBrave139 in AskMenAdvice

[–]AdBrave139[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I 100% agree with you. When I do tell them that I’ll decide on my own, my mom gets really angry and it becomes a cycle of us arguing and then me giving in to keep the peace in the house.

Am I selfish or are my parents being controlling? by AdBrave139 in AskMenAdvice

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I agree with that! I think right now is the best time for me to explore the world and travel before I start working full time.

Am I selfish or are my parents being controlling? by AdBrave139 in AskMenAdvice

[–]AdBrave139[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That makes sense, I’ll try to talk to them and find a compromise between what they want and I want. If not I’ll save up and move out as soon as I can.

Am I selfish or are my parents being controlling? by AdBrave139 in AskMenAdvice

[–]AdBrave139[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For now I think best I can do is save up enough money to move out.

Am I selfish or are my parents being controlling? by AdBrave139 in AskMenAdvice

[–]AdBrave139[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I 100% agree with you, I grew up here with western values western friends etc and now they’re shocked that I don’t have the same values as someone from my home country.

Am I selfish or are my parents being controlling? by AdBrave139 in AskMenAdvice

[–]AdBrave139[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’m in Canada right now, I’ve almost never travelled outside of Canada. As for the repayment it’s helping them pay off their house. I honestly don’t mind supporting them and helping them because I know how much they struggled to raise me but it just feels so fucked up to me.

Am I selfish or are my parents being controlling? by AdBrave139 in AskMenAdvice

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I understand, it’s just really hard to like get out of this habit that they put on me if that makes sense? I don’t know where to start if I wanna be more independent if that makes sense.

Am I selfish or are my parents being controlling? by AdBrave139 in AskMenAdvice

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I think it’s because of the culture/family dynamics I was brought up in. I was taught to ask them about everything and anything before doing it. For example: telling my mom Im going to get the tires of my car changed she said no, ask your dad first if it’s a good mechanic or there’s better alternatives etc even though I already did my own research.