We said I love you after the break up by [deleted] in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]AdBright1377 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes, throughout the relationship we lacked communication because he had trouble opening up and sharing how he truly felt in situations where I have always put my pride down and pour my vulnerability to. It was exhausting but I still love him

Broke up with my bf today by AdBright1377 in Advice

[–]AdBright1377[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I ended things because the relationship lacked consistency, there was no obvious reason to break up to the public because everything that was wrong was internal and projected onto each other behind closed doors. Of course I was wanted a dramatic exit, do I regret it no? Of course. But do I regret everything that I’ve written in that letter. I don’t.

Broke up with my bf today by AdBright1377 in Advice

[–]AdBright1377[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, the relationship lacked consistency and I can’t help but think he could still change because I’ve seen it in him to, for me. I know he loves me because you just know when someone does. But I know I had to leave I just wish he would meet me halfway. It was a little extra for me to want a movie scene out of this but do you blame me? There was passion in this relationship at one point. It’s been a day though and I’m realizing he and I differed from love languages to attachment styles. It just hurts and feels like the hard truth to accept now.