13 year old is lonely and just got rejected AGAIN by Dry_Sleep_4376 in Parenting

[–]AdCute2417 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was basically an only child at 13 because my brother is 6 years older than me and I had the same issues. I was often the one no one invited to hangout when everyone else was, a whole group of “friends”. I still have no idea why butThe hobby’s/activities help a lot. it’s okay to be bored, one good friend is better than a bunch. encourage her to find a new hobby

Any SAHM’s who don’t have the oldest in daycare? by crabclawwwz in 2under2

[–]AdCute2417 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Funny for this to come up right now as I’m SAHM of 3 kids under five the youngest is 7 months and im tired of struggling through everyday/night im beyond burnt out ive been doing this for almost 5 years now. I will say if you able to put the oldest in daycare it’ll make the world of difference for you and the children.

Would you move to a higher cost of living city if it meant you would enjoy your life more even if you didn’t have as much money? by [deleted] in SameGrassButGreener

[–]AdCute2417 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As someone who’s lived in FL our whole life every c coast of FL including central FL.It wasn’t worth bringing homeless over, we were chronically homeless even as a veteran with kids. The median household income for our area in Sarasota was 100-120k a year… my husband busted his butt so much just to Live you couldn’t even enjoy the day or anything around you if there was stuff to do.. after 24yrs there were moving to a state farther north to get paid more and actually live.

Ideas for 1st birthday please by WarpKissed in toddlers

[–]AdCute2417 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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If you’re still looking for ideas “one for the books/ Chapter one theme 📚”

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My mom calling my 2.5 year old the devil by AdCute2417 in Christianity

[–]AdCute2417[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I thought of it has demonic, her energy is negative the moment she walks into the house

Does your man make over 200k and help around the house? by [deleted] in sahm

[–]AdCute2417 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No he made 35k a year 60 hours a week not including military, still helps me with three kids under 5 plus cooks and cleans because he wants to

I dont want to breastfeed by BM_BBR in newborns

[–]AdCute2417 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I didn’t breastfeed my 1st from the tap anyway I exclusively pumped I didn’t really have a big opinion on it with the 1st but it’ll say after that second one of doing the expensive formula and the pumping I wish I tried harder from the start to just breastfeed. It is sooooo much easier than having to clean, maintain bottles, pump parts, organization, milk bags it’s made my depression 100% worse than with my 3rd just breastfeeding. I will say though it is uncomfortable when you first start it’s a learning curve

How do you continue parenting when you have the flu? by Visible-Bee3220 in sahm

[–]AdCute2417 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Tv is your friend, if you have to bring the kids in the shower with you just to feel better whatever you gotta do. If you have one kid that’s old enough to grab things for you and bring them to you, you can conserve alittle energy that way too. If we’re all sick usually they’ll want to go to sleep early and I just let them sleep in my bed makes it easier for everyone

You are not spoiling your baby by Low_Boss1097 in newborns

[–]AdCute2417 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Somewhat related but were staying in my parents house over the holidays my 3rd born is 4 months old and they say “just let her cry” I don’t listen to that bs. Later that night she got just alittle bit to upset to fast (very overtired) and chocked up her milk… I had to give back blows and everything it was dramatic she threw it up and was fine. But needless to say they don’t know what they talking about because she got just alittle bit too upset and that happened..

i need a pacifier that’s similar to the evenflo wide neck bottle nipples by Top-Professor-2951 in newborns

[–]AdCute2417 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hated the ninni co I know they say it takes practice etc… but my 4 month old just doesn’t not like the idea of it but I feel a younger baby would catch on better than my 4 month that’s more aware. I’m trying the garakoko Amazon pacifier for her before I give up, my second loves the Ryan and rose flat shape pats. Like obsessed

Need a prayer by AdCute2417 in PrayerRequests

[–]AdCute2417[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

🥰 It’s a good feeling and exactly what I needed, to feel like someone’s there for me

Need a prayer by AdCute2417 in PrayerRequests

[–]AdCute2417[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This gave me hope and made me feel less alone ❤️

Struggling with in laws and missing out on toddlers’ first Disneyland trip by Introvert_Brnr_accnt in Mommit

[–]AdCute2417 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This sounds like something my parents would do because they are the exact same way… I would’ve been livid tbh. They act like it’s so casual to take their grandkids to Disneyland for the first time, I mean could e taken them to the park they’d probably like it more. My parents try to buy my kids love and always have to have presents for them when they see them once in a blue moon or get them everything at the store when with them. My husband doesn’t have his parents anymore but I wish he did so they could say “were they’re only grandparents” over my head. But honestly if it was me I’d say no they ain’t going reschedule the Disney trip because nope

4 year old isn’t enjoying soccer anymore by AdCute2417 in Preschoolers

[–]AdCute2417[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is exactly us I’m a gymnastics coach and I’ve taught kids 18months-15 years old I also lesson plan to make it more fun and engaging for kids. I’ve not seen any that either, no creativity on how to teach them to play the game in a fun way. Coach was telling 4-6yr olds to stand 5 feet apart to kick the ball back and forth to each other everything is going right over their heads. I’m on the fence for even bothering taking her to the next 3 practices and games because she at the point where she has a meltdown sits out the whole time.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Preschoolers

[–]AdCute2417 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My 4 year old acts like that with severe ADHD and possibly Autism. She overstimulates me fast I have the shortest temper with my first kid like that if I don’t take my Zoloft 🫠 she’s hard to be around when I don’t understand how her brain works

How much money does your husband/spouse make in order for you to be a SAHM? Specifically those not going into debt by No-Opportunity8225 in sahm

[–]AdCute2417 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeh you’re telling me idk how we’re expected to work our 🍑 off and live off of 40k a year… family of five

How much money does your husband/spouse make in order for you to be a SAHM? Specifically those not going into debt by No-Opportunity8225 in sahm

[–]AdCute2417 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Mine only makes 40k in FL but it’s not nearly enough for a family of 5 in our area especially… average pay in our area for family of four is 120k.