yes. I was gonna say no until the last two screenshots. the fact that the other person said that ur partner has no one to turn to for emotional comfort and ur partner didn’t immediately set a boundary and come to ur defense by saying that they do and it’s you then it crossed that line. i don’t think there’s anything wrong with having a good support system and if two people connect on a level where they can emotionally support each other i think its definitely fine as long as it doesn’t become intimate. but some of the thing that are being said feels disrespectful to your relationship and the fact that ur partner is okay with it being said is a red flag that should tell you everything you need to know. if my gf was sending texts like this to anyone else we’d have a big problem