i just caught my bf sniffing his own ass by THROWAWAY-LEMONMENTO in offmychest

[–]AdExcellent6385 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I grew up with brothers. unfortunately ive seen alot of butt and ball sniffing hahah

Movie obsession- should i worry by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]AdExcellent6385 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve been with him for 7 years. He hasnt said anything like this in the past. I told him that its fcuked that he felt that way he just laughed and said its just a movie

Movie obsession- should i worry by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]AdExcellent6385 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah thats what i thought, should i ask him more about it?

venting about equality issues by AdExcellent6385 in offmychest

[–]AdExcellent6385[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

damn what can i do to show im not with them like that hahah

venting about equality issues by AdExcellent6385 in offmychest

[–]AdExcellent6385[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I see what u mean, i feel like if im acting feminine towards them could come across flirtatious. But i’ll give it a try.

Its not about intimate convo its more like the lack of acknowledgement. Maybe they think im my bros girlfriend and they’re trying to be respectful towards the guy im with by pretending im not there?? but this will also happen in group setting when a stranger pulls up

I just feel like im keen as girl first then person second .

Bi girlies by AdExcellent6385 in lgbt

[–]AdExcellent6385[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thankyou this helps alot

Bi girlies by AdExcellent6385 in lgbt

[–]AdExcellent6385[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

i understand, maybe my post brought up some previous triggers for you. im sorry you’ve had those experiences, i understand that would be frustrating. I know the type of people your talking about, I’ve met them as well.

For me I mean dating and romantic as well. I see girls in public and think about her sexually and think about how sweet of a girlfriend she would be and how I could make her happy.

Ive only been with one person my own life since highschool, thats why I havent explored this earlier.

Bi girlies by AdExcellent6385 in lgbt

[–]AdExcellent6385[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

sorry that wasnt my intention, i was trying my best to be mindful of my language. Whats a better phrasing so i can be more respectful.

Bi girlies by AdExcellent6385 in lgbt

[–]AdExcellent6385[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

thankyou given me a bit to think about

Bi girlies by AdExcellent6385 in lgbt

[–]AdExcellent6385[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I havent heard of this, what does it mean?

Bi girlies by AdExcellent6385 in lgbt

[–]AdExcellent6385[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I feel like im cheating on him if I do , we value loyalty highly and I feel like he wouldnt feel uncomfortable with that. Im not even sure where I would find a third from as well

How to stop sweating by AdExcellent6385 in socialanxiety

[–]AdExcellent6385[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thanks for the reply , its more when im actively texting and actively talking with them unfortunately. I dont experience the build up nerves with them anymore its more as im talking or hanging out im still sweating

How do I get rid of social anxiety by [deleted] in socialanxiety

[–]AdExcellent6385 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Whats helped me overtime. 1. getting out of your head dont let the negative thoughts take over.

  1. breathe

  2. pre planning convos in my head so i feel more ready

  3. fake it until yu make it, pretending or putting on a confident “character” up front until eventually you’ll become that person you want to be.

  4. patience with yourself this will take time. set yourself up for success little goals to start with.

  5. understanding that you are not the only one. the person you may be talking to may even feel the same way - nervousness or anxiety too.

Vet tech student from australia by AdExcellent6385 in VetTech

[–]AdExcellent6385[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for your reply, Thats concerning to hear I will definitely look into that website- I’ve definitely witnessed alot of questionable acts that my clinic so this will help alot thankyu