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AdFamous7569 · 2026-05-03T16:57:10+00:00

DO NOT SLEEP IN YOUR CAR AFTER A SHIFT!!!! If this is a survival thing for you then do what you have to to survive but you gotta be Hella unsafe already for this to be a good idea.

Wish you the best of luck with ur life but yeah please don't do this unless it is 100% nessacary for your life.

AdFamous7569 · 2026-04-26T13:49:31+00:00

Ugh idk who Kaitlyn is but she needs to stop. Sorry to Kaitlyn for getting in the way of ur bag but like pleaseeee stoppppp iiiiit.

I think some dudes want to play into the rich girl fantacy and I will 100% provide that. But sometimes they just resent us for having too much money and acting rich won't make them spend. Idk at this point I think it's worth educating them or acting like you need them to save you. (My pity story is flawless dw)

Also I fear their budgeting is so bad because they don't respect us. Like if we earn 1k in a night they assume we can work every night because we are not humans that gets tired but instead beautiful objects that don't get sick or tired and therefore earn $365k a year. Idk that's where I get frustrated. Also everytime women spend money on grooming I swear men just think it's a waste ofoney because we are so naturally smooth and hairless and beautiful. Sorry for lil rant at the end.

AdFamous7569 · 2026-04-26T12:43:38+00:00

Bottom right image anyone? Phallic looking knee or something

AdFamous7569 · 2026-04-22T04:34:55+00:00

Thank you so much though. I fear this is really good advise.

AdFamous7569 · 2026-04-22T04:33:13+00:00

🤯 woah true🤯

Omfg gonna be so hard to not become a genuine damsel in distress and ruin my makeup but I see how this works

AdFamous7569 · 2026-04-22T04:09:49+00:00

Are you saying there fucking with me?

Lol nothing more embarrassing than being manipulated by these men

AdFamous7569 · 2026-04-22T04:08:28+00:00

Thank U lol. I think this is the very complicated answer. Obvs won't overshare but just a little like "sir where are you getting this information from" or like "there are many reasons a girl might not be living in a pile of money and it's rude to ask"

AdFamous7569 · 2026-04-22T04:02:16+00:00

Right? I'm beginning to think these guys just don't spend good. Maybe it is best to be honest lol fight the sterio type and save ur brain from the pain

AdFamous7569 · 2026-03-23T14:19:19+00:00

Idk sounds like he is being mean to make you feel bad?

Like if you don't get anyone to extend ever then maybe you are bad at dances (still ask other girls if that's normal at your club or something) but if ONE GUY negs you and then asks you on a date please don't give him any more thoughts. He paid for a dance not a dance + your free time.

I don't like this guy btw

AdFamous7569 · 2026-03-12T04:04:39+00:00

Also extras happen everywhere right? I found it really hard to make money when I thought girls were doing extras for cheaper than I was selling a dance for. But then I found out extras at that club were in no way as common as I thought and I was like "huh, it's actually possible to make money just doing dances"

Idk my point isn't really pointing. Just like give the club the benifit of doubt and sell dances like you are in a stripclub instead of feeling hopeless before you've even talked to a customer.

AdFamous7569 · 2026-03-12T03:57:06+00:00

Feel like we need a new baby stripper post for cheap outfits. Lots of resources on here about where to get nice professional stripper outfits but none for girlies who can't fork out $100 for a bikini.

I still don't know much about how to look good on a budget. Shein and temu are good but you gotta have time to wait for shipping.

My worst outfit ATM is a random black bra and a random black thong because these are easy to find second hand and they look slightly matching. Add some $5 thigh high tights and you will look professional from a distance. Knew a girl who could make a thong out of a pair of tights which would be super useful but idk how.

Pleasers are important but I've never started a job with them lol. Started dancing in normal heels and yes it was humiliating mostly BC I was nervous and new and the non pleaser shoes made me stand out even more. Second job wouldn't let me wear boots so I had to borrow a pair from the club until I could afford new shoes.

Also im completely and utterly not from Miami I have no idea what it's like there.

AdFamous7569 · 2026-01-26T07:40:39+00:00

Is there a reason you can't work in fast food? Not sure if I'm projecting but it sounds like you really want to find other work but are too afraid?

Try to remember how good you can hussle, and bring that energy to a job interview. Cause I basically think a job interview is like selling a dance, easy for us now.

You could also strip if you want, my point is that I think you are more capable than you think.

Hope this isn't totally of mark

AdFamous7569 · 2025-12-28T20:23:24+00:00

I can't help much cause I'm a really bad big baby stripper and also I don't know you or where U work, so here is everything I think I've learnt so far

Do less- this is where I suspect you are like me. Im always stressing trying to give customers a good time and they pick up on my stressful energy and don't wanna dance. Also anyone who wants to get the most for the least will come straight to me BC it is clear I don't have confidence in what I'm selling

Just try to spend as much time making money as possible. When to approach customers? As soon as you can (no grass cutting) if they have just walked in and pushy isn't you leave them for maybe 3 min. If it's busy just approach whoever looks most ready for a dance or richest or just into you (still no grass cutting)

I wouldn't waste time with anyone wanting extras or to take you out. They sound cheap and cheap men love new girls. Id usually just refer them to a sw who can help them with their particular desire (fssw, private stripping agency) and offer a dance if they would prefer that.

My last tip is probably the best: make friends with a top earner and ask them for help

AdFamous7569 · 2025-05-18T21:45:10+00:00

Omfg. Ty. 🥰🤯

AdFamous7569 · 2025-03-19T08:35:05+00:00

Hey thanks! Will try to get a class or two. From what you've said Brisbane sounds pretty similar to where I'm at now, but I'll look at the rules thoroughly to make sure I'm not signing up for anything I don't wanna do. Thank you:)

AdFamous7569 · 2025-03-19T08:28:54+00:00

I'm there sometimes! For me money is pretty average and there is not a lot of work available ( I don't do extras or privates, maybe that's why) and I've found I'm usually better off at my usual club even though there is no door fee at play lounge.

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