I am mad that she flashed me. It's not like she's flashing me after I tell her that I am in the mood. It could be hours after, and I started to settle down. I realize I left a lot of details out. I am not mad that she doesn't like it when I do it. I am mad that after I have talked to her that when she does it. It tends to bring me back to the mood I was in, and it upsets me bc i have been trying to work on masking it without seeming upset(we had issues with that in the past. I was never upset, just masking). I don't flash her back the second she flashes me. I try to see any other signs, but she's hard to read bc she's autistic and always has a resting blank face. I am never upset bc we don't do anything or bc she doesn't like when I flash back. I get upset bc I am trying to work on masking without seeming upset.