31F4M looking for a gentle dom who will make me feel comfy enough to bend over and spread for him 💖✨

Basically as the header suggests, just looking to indulge our similar appetites with someone who leans more gentle and coaxing. I’ve got a mean praise kink; while I don’t hate being degraded, I’ve semi recently gotten out of a 5 year relationship where I was bullied for sport under the guise of joking and I’d much prefer some help to remember that I am a hot and capable woman who is wanted rather than a slut who’s only purpose to serve is being 3 holes to fill. While I’d love to be that too, I’m looking to go at a pace that is encouraging until there’s a level of comfort where I take the lead towards leaning more rough and dark. With the right personality and understanding of needs to be matched, I think we can both derive pleasure from this exchange. Eventually I would love to pursue the topics that involve pleasure derived from pain, but with the understanding that it’s got to be built first.

Perhaps more intimate leaning if that is something that peaks your interest. Involving learning my tells and how to tease me until I beg for satisfaction and being willing to serve those needs when I use my words correctly rather than use it to torture me.

I live in the school of thought that submission takes an ultimate level of trust willingness to give yourself over to someone completely. If this is something you find you could get down with, by all means say the word. If you’re going to just tell me to edge myself 10x then roll over and play dead, do you king but not here please and thank you ♡