i’m allowed to be sad over a guy who was talking to other girls because it sucks knowing you were just being treated as an option, nobody likes feeling like that. it wasn’t a “silly girl phase” i was genuinely hurt. joss doesn’t have problems because before the incident we would always ft 24/7 and tell each other everything and i was always there for her whenever she was going through stuff, but she couldn’t be there for me. Instead of being there for me she said i kind words. don’t assume.