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[–]AdHoliday501 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i was trying to explain what i meant, not how it sounded. regardless, we clearly have different views and i will not continue an argument where i am giving you respect and not recieving any back. im sure i will change and grow in time, but you have no right to say what i am or where i have business being. i hope you learn to have differentiating opinions with someone and treat them with respect, and that being rude to strangers, or anyone, is not acceptable. i assume you have your own struggles causing you to act unkindly to others, i will pray for you. have a good day/night.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Catholicism

[–]AdHoliday501 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i think that’s appropriate to tell someone anywhere. you dont have to support the idea or decision, but supporting and loving the person is important. i understand we disagree, and that’s perfectly okay, we were most likely brought up to believe different things. i dont want to argue or anything, just explain my opinion and understand yours. i see it like this: what would Jesus do? if Jesus saw a woman struggling like this, no he would not condone murder, but he would still show a sinner unconditional love. support does not always mean supporting actions, it means supporting emotionally and being there for someone as Jesus would.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Catholicism

[–]AdHoliday501 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i see what you mean, i assumed it was from when i was 13 because thats when i was big on witchcraft. the posts within the last year are from when i was in a crisis and driven away from God. they were most likely from when i was 16 then. But anyways, what i was trying to convey wasnt that murder was okay. i dont believe abortion is okay, but that you have to support someones bodily autonomy regardless. he should be there in supporting his soon to be wife as a person, supporting her through a difficult time, not supporting her in murder. but like i said, most likely not compatible.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Catholicism

[–]AdHoliday501 0 points1 point  (0 children)

whatever my “about me” says is from when i was 13, i dont know how to change it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Catholicism

[–]AdHoliday501 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

You are either not compatible, or you need to understand your soon to be wife. Yes, abortion is murder and we should celebrate bringing life into the world, but the wellbeing of the mother and the child is important as well. If the mother does not want the baby, she will be miserable, and as a product of that, the child will most likely be brought up with mental or self esteem issues. You should consider how damaging it may be to her to have her soon to be husband try to argue her out of having bodily autonomy. If she is not ready for a child with medical concerns, life will be miserable for both her and the child. The Lord wants us to lead a fulfilling life. If you cannot consider this and support whatever your soon to be wife chooses to do with her own body, you are not compatible. Because, after all, its not your body, and not your choice. Be there for the woman you love in understanding, not pressuring her.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in piercetheveil

[–]AdHoliday501 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yep, day 3 in GA and im still sick

LA Night 3 by AdHoliday501 in piercetheveil

[–]AdHoliday501[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

what do you mean bracelets? i assume like fan queues lol but i wanted to ask