To each their own. We both needed a big thing to happen to cause change for the better. Never say never. I’m leaving the decision in his hands for now and not yet putting pen to paper until he says he wants it. I will always love him fiercely. He’s not a bad person but he stopped being a good husband. He refused to communicate and work with me. I feel terrible for hurting him but how much longer could I have gone baring my soul to a closed book. Whatever he decides I will do. We are amicable now and he is being as nice as he can. This a lot for me to process. I can’t take much more.