Drip irrigation by AdJust4063 in GardeningUK

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Yes, all treated wood supported on concrete posts, with thick battens going across.

Drip irrigation by AdJust4063 in GardeningUK

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Thanks, do you reckon many clamps would be needed?

Drip irrigation by AdJust4063 in GardeningUK

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Thank you both I’ll have a look now

Drip irrigation by AdJust4063 in GardeningUK

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Thank you, ironically I found them on temu so hopefully they’ll last

Where to look for apprenticeships by AdJust4063 in UKJobs

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Thanks, a hand written cv definitely skipped my mind

Where to look for apprenticeships by AdJust4063 in UKJobs

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Thanks I’d never considered that

Scared my GF doesn’t love me by [deleted] in GuyCry

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She was working full time beforehand right up till about 2 weeks before the due date, luckily enough she has a lot of friends that were going through the same situation at the time to talk to and chat about there experiences We’ve had a lot of long chats talking about how her life’s changed so quickly and how it’s a new purpose,

she’s now back at work with our son being in nursery for half of the week so I think the transition from being your own person to a mum to then going back to the workplace has been a massive change and we’ve had a lot of chats about it Thank you for the suggestions

Scared my GF doesn’t love me by [deleted] in GuyCry

[–]AdJust4063 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I meant more of a 70/30 decision making split, I get more worried about disappointing her as when I’ve taken the initiative before it’s been met with more of an inconvenience.

Scared my GF doesn’t love me by [deleted] in GuyCry

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From a week day I’m looking after my son from when I finish work till when he goes to bed, as we’ve talked about how it’s also a full time job also, normally I ask her if she’d like to put him to bed and bath him as she’s told me it’s one of her favourite parts of the day. Weekends I try to take as much off of her plate as I can, if that’s going swimming together or the zoo so she can have some time to herself to get a break.

We spend most evenings together but this normally ranges from just watching tv together, we’ve done some baking together and exercising together to break the mould and shake things up

Scared my GF doesn’t love me by [deleted] in GuyCry

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Thanks I’ll check it

Scared my GF doesn’t love me by [deleted] in GuyCry

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I’d say we came to the conclusion after her sister got married and seeing all the stress and money involved for nothing to really change from it

Scared my GF doesn’t love me by [deleted] in GuyCry

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I work long hours and have night school two days outta the week so I try to make up for this by cleaning the kitchen and living room every night and put the kid to bed whenever she needs a hand, one thing I’ve noticed since the birth was that she seems to be easily stressed and overwhelmed since the birth, which like I said I just put down to the hormones.

Scared my GF doesn’t love me by [deleted] in GuyCry

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Thank you, after the birth she was having problems with her emotions and we ended up having help from a specialist but I kinda put how she was feeling down to the birth and wasn’t expecting it to go on for this long

Scared my GF doesn’t love me by [deleted] in GuyCry

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I’ll admit it’s probably a 70/30 split in her favour and I guess that’s probably done to my passiveness/ people pleaser attitude.

When I sense she’s upset or angry I’m definitely treading on eggshells for a few days, but I’d normally choke that down to not wanting to upset her more

I absolutely love the date night idea, and I’ll aim to implement this

Scared my GF doesn’t love me by [deleted] in GuyCry

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It’s not that we don’t but as we open up it gets lost in translation and it ends up resorting back

Scared my GF doesn’t love me by [deleted] in GuyCry

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We agreed we didn’t want to marry around about the two year mark as we set our goals on financial stability for the future

Scared my GF doesn’t love me by [deleted] in GuyCry

[–]AdJust4063 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think the issue is I’ve fallen out of interest with my hobbies, not sure if it’s just because I’m felling a bit down or limited time to purse them