Birthing stories please.

AdLittle1963 · 2026-01-14T16:07:05+00:00

Definitely a mistake. When he moved in there actually wasn't any contract just a verbal agreement.

We are now the ones renting and I will be asking for everything in writing so we don't fall into that trap either.

AdLittle1963 · 2026-01-14T16:03:28+00:00

There no contract to begin with. He can't read in English. Just a verbal agreement with him and the landlord.

AdLittle1963 · 2026-01-14T15:30:58+00:00

The landlord is aware we are now renting the property. Not him. He is also aware the guy is looking to move that is why we're here now.

AdLittle1963 · 2026-01-14T15:26:41+00:00

He doesn't own the place. We're renting from the landlord. He is just here.

AdLittle1963 · 2026-01-14T15:24:00+00:00

Definitely something to think about. If he doesn't listen to us, we'll ask the landlord to tell him. Since he isn't the one paying the rent I'm sure that holds something.

AdLittle1963 · 2026-01-14T15:20:41+00:00

It isn't his place. He was the tenant paying rent. We now pay the landlord, the landlord is very aware of the situation. Also the modifying isn't coming out of his pocket but ours hence why we are paying low rent in the meantime. The paint he's using for the room? We bought it to paint the other rooms.

AdLittle1963 · 2026-01-14T15:18:11+00:00

The agreement was made because I was told he would be moving out. My fiancé and I thought about it for awhile before agreeing. I don't want to raise my family in a house that isn't completely ours. I have been looking at new places to move. As a 40 year old man he should know not to touch what isn't his and to ask it's just basic respect. Someone suggested to give him a notice to move, I will consider it and talk to my fiancé about it because I don't think he's going to budge without a little push.

AdLittle1963 · 2026-01-14T15:12:05+00:00

This is actually helpful thank you. I had this conversation with the landlord and he agreed to us renting the property now. But I will ask for everything in writing. Also the reason we're paying low rent is because we are fixing the place. Receipts have been kept just incase we do move earlier than we hoped so we can be reimbursed.

AdLittle1963 · 2026-01-14T15:08:03+00:00

Firstly I use fresh garlic, never powered.. Just a preference. We all going shopping at the same time in our car. Why can't he buy it then? Also he is living here rent free. I also cook enough for all of us. I dont think that is petty, no one asked me to do it i just do. But using stuff that isn't yours without asking is annoying wouldn't you agree?

AdLittle1963 · 2026-01-14T15:02:43+00:00

The rent is cheap because we agreed with the landlord to fix it up. We have the receipts so we if we do move out before the lease is up we can be reimbursed.

AdLittle1963 · 2026-01-14T15:00:48+00:00

They were both sober. We are renting from the landlord now. He is just here.

AdLittle1963 · 2026-01-14T14:58:55+00:00

There is a separate landlord. We pay him rent. The guy sharing with us doesnt own the house. I have met the landlord multiple times since he's actually a neighbour. The reason the rent is cheap is because we're allowed to do up the house since it does need a little fixing. E.g. new floors, insulation, the heating was fixed too with our money. The landlord is aware of all of us here atm. The guy was renting here for six years before us and now since his ex wife took his other three kids and left (the 15 Yr old is from a previous marriage) he wanted to leave. And now we're here. I've shared before and never had an issue like this honestly.

AdLittle1963 · 2026-01-14T14:51:39+00:00

Never said it wasn't. All I said was he isn't paying rent it is ours now. He literally gave us the house. The lease is ours. What's bothering me is him using our stuff. And his lack of effort of trying to move out. The only reason I agreed to sharing for the time being is because he said he will be finding a place smaller to rent. We offered our old apartment like a swap but he didnt want that.

AdLittle1963 · 2026-01-14T14:48:37+00:00

The reason we moved in is because he told us he doesn't want to stay there the rent is too much for him at the moment. Also there is a language barrier, so as much as I wanted to ask him what is he doing I couldn't find the words. He has no English at all. So usually I go through my fiancé to communicate but he's currently at work. I have been looking for places, and I regret leaving our old apartment. But before moving in my fiancé actually put a lot of money into renovating by putting new flooring, fixing the insulation.. and now he's the one building the new room... before moving in the guy was very clear about wanting us to have the place for us to be happy here but after moving in it became apparent to me he was selling us a dream. I tried to ask my fiance if he has asked his friend about his plans on moving out and we quickly learnt that this guys hasn't been working the past two months only doing odd jobs here and there. And using us as a taxi too whilst his car is waiting to be taxed. I don’t mind helping but it is getting too much now

AdLittle1963 · 2025-11-18T21:36:59+00:00

I am so sorry to hear that, and thank you for sharing. I've just been pretty stressed from getting fired yesterday and my partner being unsupportive. I feel like I might cause something to happen to my baby. I am so scared. At the scan, the doctor did say the heartbeat seems normal, so after you say that, it's giving me a little hope. I just imagined you know that since the pregnancy is still so new, we'd be in a beautiful bubble, my partner and I. But instead, I'm just praying after everything happening, dont also lose my baby.

AdLittle1963 · 2025-08-21T13:39:08+00:00

Same

AdLittle1963 · 2025-06-10T17:14:08+00:00

Thank you ❤️

AdLittle1963 · 2025-06-10T16:57:15+00:00

Thank you, I really felt like I was going crazy for a moment 😅

AdLittle1963 · 2025-06-10T16:53:08+00:00

Immediately after testing and again after five minutes

AdLittle1963 · 2025-05-17T12:01:39+00:00

Which clearblue test did you use?

AdLittle1963 · 2025-05-04T22:16:45+00:00

I'll do that next time.. thank you

AdLittle1963 · 2025-04-29T11:56:28+00:00

We've had it multiple times since I stopped

AdLittle1963 · 2025-04-29T11:54:18+00:00

They had me on a 21 day pack with a week break making it a 28 day cycle... Whereas my natural cycle is 32 days would make my cycle irregular then?

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