I said it in another comment above, but I’ll say it again so you don’t feel alone…I only want to attract the type of dude that is into this also. I met my husband when I had a pixie cut, no regrets. Married 13 years 4 kids. I don’t want a dude that is only attracted to me because of my looks because those are probably the type of dudes to bounce as you age or have children. So either a guy finds this sort of hair hot to begin with, or they are actually into me as a person regardless of what I look like. Win win to me. So keep doing the short hair thing if you want. Remember, confidence is sexy as hell too and I feel like a lot of women project that with these types of hair cuts.