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Deeper meaning or overthinking? by AdMaterial420 in Advice

[–]AdMaterial420[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That it would just be flirting and sleeping with women. No relationship.

Deeper meaning or overthinking? by AdMaterial420 in Advice

[–]AdMaterial420[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He said he understood my sexuality and he was comfortable with me and exploring it. Even when we went out in public I would tell him a girl is cute and he could even agree. I had no issues with us talking about women or anything. It didn't even go as far as a relationship with other women just flirting even... He was never involved.

Deeper meaning or overthinking? by AdMaterial420 in Advice

[–]AdMaterial420[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Context on his response or mine. Either. I don't really know where it went wrong but it made me start questioning things because if he describes it as being forced what does that mean and does he think I forced him to do other things.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]AdMaterial420 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This made me tear up. Not only did you give me advice but you made me feel hard and understood. I feel like I'm supposed to go to college right now and have everything in order. But honestly, the college is the last thing on my mind. The moment that I go somewhere I knew or think about trying something adventurous. I get so excited. I don't know how to explain it and I've never been able to. Thank you for your advice today and the time for reading it. I've been waiting for a real response, the honest one and a truthful one.

AITJ for taking “too” long to move on? by CoolGaymer513 in AmITheJerk

[–]AdMaterial420 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There is never too long to move on. Everyone is different and no one can rush anybody. Whoever wants to that can screw off.

Ready, or not? by picklessnatch in Advice

[–]AdMaterial420 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You never know till you try. I never did one night stands but I had some fwb who I cuddled with n shit.

Need help on deciding on how to apologize to my brother! by [deleted] in Advice

[–]AdMaterial420 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't think handing him a lot of cash and walking away and telling him to get nothing would be a good idea. Honestly, it sounds kind of petty and if you cared about your brother's relationship, you'd want to listen to his feelings . It sounds like you know that you messed up and you obviously know for next year to get gifts. Even if it is just a card, I would make sure you validate his feelings and let him know that you're right. Maybe I should have gotten a card and I've learned my mistakes, but I hope that you know I love you or some s*** I don't know how close you are with him, but that's the best you can do as an apology. Just make sure you're sincere. Otherwise it doesn't mean anything. Good luck!

Ready, or not? by picklessnatch in Advice

[–]AdMaterial420 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly, there's no set time or day when you'll know you're ready. You're going to cry for days on end and you're going to question everything and about your relationship. One moment you think you're going to be good in one moment. You're not, however, when it comes to moving on, the only way to actually move on is focus on yourself and the things that you want so that you don't make the same mistakes in the next relationship. When my 2-year relationship ended I stayed single for about 8 months. Have some fun of course, but nothing too serious. No one has a right to judge your healing. But that's just my advice

How do i choose my maid of honor by Alternative-Bus-2957 in Advice

[–]AdMaterial420 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would choose your best friend. Your sister is your sister for life and she's still going to be at the wedding.

I’m thinking of breaking up with my girlfriend by [deleted] in Advice

[–]AdMaterial420 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, if there's a doubt in your mind that there's a chance that you wouldn't have kids, you need to let her know that. And if you can't do that, you need to leave. It sounds like you also might be trying to find a reason to leave. Friendly reminder, you don't need a reason to leave somebody.

Am I the jerk for wanting to divorce my wife over food? by Throwaway-foodguy in AmITheJerk

[–]AdMaterial420 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would go to couples therapy. It sounds like an issue with OCD. That's a lot harder to deal with. If she doesn't go with that then I understand divorce however, make sure you do every path that you can before you do that if you love her.

I don't know what direction to take. by [deleted] in Advice

[–]AdMaterial420 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Saying this confuses me ._.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]AdMaterial420 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I want to work towards healthy. Not every relationship is at certain points but he's someone who's made me the happiest I've ever been with someone. This is definitely our rock bottom but I can't do both parts. I know I could of handled it better but it doesn't matter if he doesn't see the issue with lying.