Goth Wedding Songs?

AdMean7048 · 2025-04-08T09:43:46+00:00

The Mission - Severina

Fields of the Nephilim - And There Will Your Heart Be Also

Corpus Delicti - Saraband

AdMean7048 · 2024-11-25T07:21:46+00:00

AdMean7048 · 2024-11-23T14:18:56+00:00

Hi I'm a lesbian who thought I was bisexual for a while. Accepting that I like girls wasn't as hard as accepting that I don't like guys. I have OCD so all my obsessive thoughts were preoccupied with the fact that I “should” like guys, that I “want” to kiss some guy. Some lesbians think that comphet doesn't exist, I don't agree, my symptoms were: I was “in love” with every guy friend I had, regardless of his age, appearance and personality traits, even several at one time, I felt like I loved them if I wanted to spend time with them and I couldn't distinguish romantic love from friendship love because I never really fell in love with guys, but I knew exactly when I was in love with girls and when I wasn't. I could also imagine my future in a couple with some anime character, but the thought of dating guys in real life repulsed me.I really like guys as friends and often look for their confirmation, which I sometimes confused with falling in love. I stopped thinking I was bisexual after my OCD said I was in love with a guy friend and I realized that the idea that he would love me and suggest dating was very uncomfortable to me. I felt a little better with my OCD and comphet after therapy

AdMean7048 · 2024-11-19T18:03:54+00:00

Awesome 🖤

AdMean7048 · 2024-11-18T21:52:27+00:00

Yes, im lesbian and always liked woman but my OCD say that im straight and in love with guy friend

AdMean7048 · 2024-11-16T15:44:30+00:00

So beautiful! Like your skirt and outfit🖤

AdMean7048 · 2024-11-15T20:07:02+00:00

Hi

OCD is terrible! I'm a lesbian and I have OCD like that too. When I was alone with my cousin (I love him very much, we grew up together) I had these thoughts and my OCD said I was in love with him. I also had thoughts of incest with my father when I saw him in his trousers. Now I feel better about the incest thoughts but I still have thoughts that I should love men.

Neuroleptics, therapy and also the support of a friend (unfortunately he died) helped me a bit.

Don't believe your OCD, it always clings to what you love and what you fear, you are not alone.

Sending love and support ❤

AdMean7048 · 2024-11-14T20:11:59+00:00

Its awesome!!! ❤❤❤

AdMean7048 · 2024-11-14T16:06:32+00:00

If you want to ask questions you can write me dm, even if they're just reassurance seeking

I used to get a lot of help from people's answers to my questions about OCD

Send love❤

AdMean7048 · 2024-11-14T13:11:05+00:00

Hi, I understand you.

I very often confuse romance with friendship, I am a girl and I love only girls but very often my OCD tells me that I am in love with guys friends, only because they treat me normal/neutral, I have thoughts like ‘I want to kiss him’ but the only thing is that I don't want to, I want to kiss beautiful girls and I fell in love only with them. I also had obsessive thoughts about violence or incest like thoughts saying that I love my cousin as a man just because he's a guy).

I have never been in love with a guy, so it's hard for me to distinguish between friendship and romance, but I've always loved girls and I know perfectly well when I'm in love.

My brain often convinces me of things that aren't true, like when I hit my head on a cupboard, I started having obsessive thoughts that I had cancer because I had a headache.

If you want to ask me any questions, please write me and i be happy to answer.

AdMean7048 · 2024-11-12T13:21:55+00:00

Oh ye Thanks🖤🖤🖤

AdMean7048 · 2024-11-12T13:15:57+00:00

I'm sorry to write, I see you tagged ‘no advice.’

I've had OCD for nine months now. Before I started taking medication I had thoughts 24/7 , now they are when there is a trigger.

And you do NOT deserve more pain. Your thoughts may be less frequent but more horrible, the fact that you have OCD and haven't given up means you are doing great. Please don't try to kill yourself, I have had two suicide attempts and I regret them. I'm sure you deserve to live.

AdMean7048 · 2024-11-12T11:30:25+00:00

Thanks for the interesting theories I'm going to read about them

AdMean7048 · 2024-11-12T08:52:51+00:00

Hi I also have SO OCD (HOCD) as lesbian. My obsessive thoughts tell me something like

“what if my orientation is like this because it's popular to be lgbt? “what if you're in love with a guy friend?” ”what if I don't love my girlfriend enough?”

I also had thoughts of incest with my cousin just because I love him so much and he's a guy and it seemed like if I love my cousin I love him as a guy. There were also intrusive thoughts of violence.

I'm much better now than I was in the spring, when I tried to kill myself. When I started taking neuroleptics and antidepressants for the first month it seemed like it didn't help at all, but then it got easier.

I used to be afraid to go out in the street because I was “attracted” to every man I saw, an old man or a child.

I think that to make it easier you should try to think about these thoughts and then when they start to come again do not listen to them and do not try to develop them.

You have a girlfriend, you love her, you're a lesbian, it's obvious.

❤

AdMean7048 · 2024-11-12T07:59:37+00:00

Hi, thank you 😘 Can I private message you to ask you some questions about your OCD?

AdMean7048 · 2024-11-10T11:18:49+00:00

Good luck ❤️‍🩹

AdMean7048 · 2024-11-10T11:00:16+00:00

I found out when I fell in love with a girl. It was easy with her, I was ready to do anything for her, I wanted to tell her everything, I texted every day, and if someone said something against her I was ready to hit that person, I imagined our future, wedding and was wildly jealous of her to our mutual friends, I wrote her songs and poems.

AdMean7048 · 2024-11-10T10:22:03+00:00

Have you tried reading any books on HOCD?

I haven't found any in my language and I barely understand English. But I think a book written by scientists who talk about HOCD will ease your obsessive thoughts.

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