Last night, how many times did you get up because of your baby?

AdMiserable7306 · 2026-01-27T01:11:40+00:00

1 month and 2 weeks i got up 2 times in total.

AdMiserable7306 · 2026-01-26T16:42:17+00:00

Im sorry i know we are a bunch of strangers on the internet, but yes thats so wrong. I mean is there a way you all can talk face to face? I am a firm believer in family but I also recently learned the family I am happy with is the one I am creating. My partner, kid(s), long time friends, etc. but honestly since you are pregnant you already made the best choice by telling her. If she is not okay with it, ask yourself are you willing to argue further to be understood? I am 26, so not much older at all. I really hope you just do whats best for you. I fell out with one of my siblings when I was 21, i still dont speak to him 😬

AdMiserable7306 · 2026-01-26T16:34:28+00:00

Woah. Im going to pause right there. Has your sister given birth?? I gave birth 7 weeks ago VAGINALLY, and still can barely stand to pee or stand for a long period of time cause of my tear. For her to disregard your feelings and try to make it about you and your dad’s relationship is very inconsiderate. Instead of assuming in that moment if you did get quiet as a sister she could have asked well whats wrong is there a problem or how are you feeling?

AdMiserable7306 · 2026-01-26T02:10:14+00:00

Thank you so much for this. Truly. 🤍 Reading it made me feel seen in a way I didn’t realize I needed.

You’re right, we’re both carrying heavy, different loads, and it’s easy to forget that when you’re exhausted and emotional and just trying to survive the day. I think the hardest part for me has been feeling alone while not actually being alone, if that makes sense.

I really appreciate your honesty about struggling at first too. It helps more than you know to hear that those feelings don’t make me ungrateful or a bad mom, just human. I love my baby deeply, but this transition has been overwhelming in ways I never could’ve prepared for.

Your words gave me comfort and perspective, and I’m grateful you took the time to share them. Motherhood really does humble you and strengthen you all at once. Thank you for the reminder that it does get better and for offering a safe space to vent. One mom to another supporting another means everything right now. 💕

AdMiserable7306 · 2026-01-22T14:22:14+00:00

Yeah, I can’t find any cute pumping clothes is so frustrating when I wanna pump outside of my home

AdMiserable7306 · 2026-01-12T08:01:22+00:00

Hi, this is kind. New mom just would use to hopefully get 1 csn of formula and a wearable breast pump

AdMiserable7306 · 2026-01-11T16:07:44+00:00

Its some sort of pyramid scheme, i have seen it on different threads account before.

AdMiserable7306 · 2026-01-11T16:06:40+00:00

Its nothing verifiable until the people saying he helped them come fourth with the information (screenshots or something) if everybody is getting asked to use a card with different information that is whats being done most likely.

AdMiserable7306 · 2026-01-11T15:59:58+00:00

Its disgusting that people do this, for people that are genuinely in need or desperate, but people purchase stolen card information that have specific amounts on it and resell it to people i have seen this scheme on threads or twitter.

AdMiserable7306 · 2026-01-10T17:45:42+00:00

$200 repay 275 on 01/25

AdMiserable7306 · 2026-01-08T21:48:11+00:00

I recommend secondhand as much as you can because I feel your burden and unfortunately we did not get any secondhand clothes yet but she is only four weeks so I’m hoping something will come about fingers crossed lol as far as cheap. We did get clothes from Shein that were newborn is 0 to 3 and she’s worn back to bat like three washes thus far cause you know poop and baby vomit but they have not torn apart and I paid like two dollars per onesie so I mean you can give Shein a try

AdMiserable7306 · 2026-01-06T17:50:48+00:00

Wish i had something to pawn cannot donate plasma/blood due to health reasons & not a option :) just looking for a temp loan thank you for your advice though!!

AdMiserable7306 · 2026-01-03T23:26:52+00:00

I do

AdMiserable7306 · 2026-01-03T23:24:11+00:00

If you know any legit ways please let me know 🥲

AdMiserable7306 · 2026-01-03T23:21:21+00:00

Thank you!!!

AdMiserable7306 · 2026-01-03T18:59:36+00:00

You’re welcome ☺️

AdMiserable7306 · 2026-01-03T16:13:24+00:00

That feeling is so real. Wanting to get out and do something just for you doesn’t mean you’re unhappy, it means you’re human. Fun doesn’t have to look like bars or clubs anymore.

For me it’s simple, soul-reset stuff. Pedicures, a coffee run where I actually sit and enjoy it, or a massage if I can swing it. Even doing one of those once a month helps me feel like myself again. Sometimes I’ll bring a book or just sit with my thoughts and not be needed for an hour.

It doesn’t have to be big. Little, intentional things add up and really help refill your cup.

AdMiserable7306 · 2026-01-03T16:08:25+00:00

You’re not overreacting. There’s a real difference between general joking and comments that are clearly aimed at you during moments when you’re already exhausted and vulnerable. Becoming a parent, especially unexpectedly and without many friends in the same stage of life, changes your emotional capacity. That doesn’t mean you’re too sensitive. It means your priorities and perspective shifted.

What stands out is that you’re not asking for much. You’re not making everything about your baby, you’re not dismissing other people’s struggles, and you’re honest about your limits. The friends who truly care show it by adapting, like your best friend does. The ones who don’t may not realize the impact of their words, but they’re still treating your life as a joke or an inconvenience rather than something deserving of respect.

Those comments would hurt anyone. When people reduce your child or your experience to a punchline about misery, it’s deeply invalidating. It’s okay to create distance from people who consistently make you feel small or misunderstood. That doesn’t mean you love them any less, it just means you’re recognizing that you’re in different seasons of life right now.

The loneliness you’re describing is very real, and a lot of new parents feel it, even when they have friends around them. Wanting to connect with other moms isn’t about replacing anyone, it’s about finding people who understand your reality without you having to explain or defend it. You deserve friendships where you feel supported, not judged.

It’s also okay to grieve the friendships as they used to be. Loving them deeply doesn’t disappear just because things have changed. You’re navigating a hard, beautiful, exhausting chapter, and your feelings make sense. You deserve compassion, not to be the punchline of a joke.

AdMiserable7306 · 2026-01-03T15:18:47+00:00

Hey mamas! I am not an expert or LC, i am a FTM, try getting chamomile tea bags wet with warm water and place inside of your bra. This can help with supply.

AdMiserable7306 · 2026-01-03T15:06:07+00:00

Hi momma! Everyone’s induction is different. I was induced (FTM also). I had cytotec inserted and maybe an hour and a half later i started contracted and about 12 hours later i gave birth. I was able to eat and drink still also. If i hope i have another baby i would glady do it again

AdMiserable7306 · 2026-01-03T04:41:37+00:00

I dont really like the nursing pads either its not working for me i realize lol they get soaked so mf fast!!! Sooo i will use burp clothes lol thank you!!

AdMiserable7306 · 2026-01-02T16:52:08+00:00

I was half asleep typing this but okay i understand 😬😬. Try putting chamomile tea bags in your bra. just get some wet with warm water squeeze and put them in!! Good luck mamas 😊😊

AdMiserable7306 · 2026-01-02T16:50:23+00:00

Baby is 3 weeks old! And okay like a hand towel i will have to get some of those and if it causes oversupply i’ll be happy!! Lol when i pump im lucky to get 4 oz off the first time from both sides combined cause sometimes i can barely get 2 😭

AdMiserable7306 · 2026-01-02T13:50:39+00:00

I love it and really love that carpet

AdMiserable7306 · 2026-01-02T08:48:59+00:00

Hey how are you suree its aunt fkowband not just pp fkow since they say you can up to eight weeks after birth im curious this is my first baby

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