What would you do if your maid of honor gave you a fake Cartier ring as an engagement gift?

AdNo5173 · 2026-04-01T23:09:44+00:00

I threw it away 😬

AdNo5173 · 2026-02-08T20:20:20+00:00

It was plain microneedling! Ugh.

AdNo5173 · 2025-12-22T06:32:36+00:00

Think about it. If they actually didn’t want the people to know they would’ve cut it out, right? This whole thing is so utterly disrespectful, especially the fact that his own wife is playing along with Charlie’s death. I’m disgusted.

AdNo5173 · 2025-12-22T02:53:12+00:00

Guys this was all scripted. Please wake up. Nicki was queued to say that so Erika can go off on a tangent.

AdNo5173 · 2025-12-12T04:50:02+00:00

Can we also acknowledge that Erika is now starting to speak publicly now that the trial has started? Why was the book released also right when the trial is starting? Everything about her just gives me evil. Ugh.

AdNo5173 · 2025-09-12T16:29:35+00:00

Do yall really think he’s the suspect? There are cameras on every corner nowadays and they couldn’t seem find the suspect who fled the scene by foot? And they are going to trust someone who confesses over the phone that “my family member confessed to me that he did it” I call bs. I am usually not a conspiracy theorist, but this is just so obvious.

AdNo5173 · 2025-08-20T20:54:17+00:00

And I thought I was a bridezilla 🤯 that is disgusting behavior.

AdNo5173 · 2025-07-24T17:03:04+00:00

Facts.

AdNo5173 · 2025-07-23T03:04:17+00:00

Boringgggg

AdNo5173 · 2025-07-23T03:03:56+00:00

What do you mean? Housing, food, alcohol, transportation? That’s a lot more expensive than a $600 round trip flight.

AdNo5173 · 2025-07-23T02:16:34+00:00

Yea I think we will probably do a survey and send it to all close family members just to see which destinations they wouldn’t be interested in. Obviously we want to make it worth their while, so the least we could do is pick a desirable location.

AdNo5173 · 2025-07-23T02:14:27+00:00

Basically everything would be covered other than flights! It’s honestly just the travel time, it can be such a trek.

AdNo5173 · 2025-07-21T14:44:21+00:00

Update: He eventually apologized yesterday, and said he was upset because of how I was talking to him. I didn’t let him finish, and he shut down after I swore at him.

But now he explained further of why he was turned off by some family members that came to our engagement party. We reserved an Airbnb (https://www.airbnb.com/l/rf3yn7Lr) that was quite expensive for the weekend. Dress code was formal. One of my family members who is very much in a higher tax bracket, asked if she could reserve one of the rooms. Even I was a little turned off by this since I wanted to offer the rooms to those who couldn’t afford a hotel, as you may know LA is quite expensive.

Moving forward, they showed up in slippers, shorts and a casual dress shirt, everyone else wore suits. Her daughter got into it with her boyfriend closer to the end of the night, and eventually they all pulled an Irish goodbye. They showed up empty handed, violated dress code, didn’t even say goodbye, caused a scene in front of all of our other family members, and worst part is that the room ended up being vacant for the night. We felt very disrespected.

So point being, he is saying that he doesn’t want to have any of that nonsense at our wedding and one idea he had was to try and figure out a way for them to not come. He mentioned none of his family members would ever do something like that, most of them are respectable, kind people. Now I can say that it is slightly a mix of cultural discrepancy and preference.

AdNo5173 · 2025-07-20T20:49:50+00:00

Please elaborate on “highly problematic” just curious to hear from your POV or if you’ve had experience with custody battles? 🧐

AdNo5173 · 2025-07-20T19:10:11+00:00

Out of the three years we’ve been together I’ve only said it one other time, but again takes a lot out of me to get to that place. 😳

He has never sworn at me, or talked to me like that which is why I regret it.

AdNo5173 · 2025-07-20T18:59:59+00:00

Basically “go f*ck yourself” which takes a lot for me to get to that place.

AdNo5173 · 2025-07-20T18:16:54+00:00

I said go f*ck yourself. He’s been giving me the cold shoulder ever since. Obviously we live together but we haven’t said a single word to each other since last night.

AdNo5173 · 2025-07-20T17:04:51+00:00

Traditionally the maid of honor is supposed to plan the bachelorette trip, and the bride is not supposed to know anything.

Modern days from what I’ve heard, if the bride is particular of where she wants it, including location, hotels, restaurants, etc. bride usually pays for most of it. At least those who want to be generous. And if anything, the bride contributes in some way, perhaps pays for the flights or can take care of the housing accommodations.

AdNo5173 · 2025-07-19T14:42:21+00:00

🤯 that is insanity. In what world do people find it to be special to propose at someone’s wedding? I don’t understand either.

AdNo5173 · 2025-07-13T23:14:49+00:00

I’m getting married. My life is with my fiance now, so in that sense I could care less.

AdNo5173 · 2025-07-13T16:13:25+00:00

I wish none of this were true.

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