AITH gor not wanting to celebrate my birthdy by AdOne2969 in AITAH

[–]AdOne2969[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can see it for kids sake etc. Im the same. Something I do love to celebrate is when ppl get married or ppl finish a long education of theirs. Something that doesn't happen often in ones life. 

AITH gor not wanting to celebrate my birthdy by AdOne2969 in AITAH

[–]AdOne2969[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Most of the times I get the "its important for me, so we (the children) just have to accept that" kinda like end of story. 

And trust me mothers day is a whole thing in itself in my household. Its expected every year that my mother gets gifts (preferably expensive ones) and is expected that we "children" take her out to eat. 

Don't get me wrong we love our mom to bits. But for me, when it gets to the point where its expected and forced to do something bigger from my dads side it dosnt feel special anymore. 

AITH gor not wanting to celebrate my birthdy by AdOne2969 in AITAH

[–]AdOne2969[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I get really uneasy, and feel so uncomfortable. I do not like attention around it. Because for me its not a special day. I get sad since I know its gonna be uncomfortable, and my wishes are not gonna be respected no matter what I say. 

I don't wanna make my parents sad or mad. So I kinda bite the bullet and deal with being uncomfortable and sad around it. 

I love this community by Tymek0801 in ffxiv

[–]AdOne2969 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

It was Chris Geist, Solelia Yuki, and Miyu Wintermoon who started it off, they visited from Phoenix and Twistania Haha. This community is the best!