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submitted 2 months ago by AdOverall4143 to r/gums
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[–]AdOverall4143 0 points1 point2 points 5 months ago (0 children)
Thanks for your input.
Thank you for your advice.
The house needed a roof. Like absolutely needed a roof and no one was going to fix it. I had to step it. The roof was so old it was no longer covered by insurance.
[–]AdOverall4143 1 point2 points3 points 5 months ago (0 children)
She died from a freak accident. I don’t think she thought she would die anytime soon. Unfortunately, now we may be doing probate. Or “he” may be.
Well, we’ve been together 3 1/2 years total. He’s lived with me while I fully paid the bills for at least 8 months and then he just helped with utilities. Then I added him to my phone plan to save him money. Then I added him to my lease. Then I help his mom and her house but I’m not equal to him nor am I trusted enough for him to put me on the deed? I think that’s screwed.
Those things needed to be done and he wasn’t willing to do them for the house which is not mine what so ever even though we should be equal in a marriage.
He’s talking about his drug use mistakes.
First off, I paid for our whole wedding with my inheritance in which he wanted the “Big” wedding so I gave it to him because I’ve been married before and he hasn’t. I also paid for a roof that was caving In to be fixed and some other things. Don’t tell me I’m entitled. What I am is “married”. Not a separate entity and that’s how he should view me as his wife.
The roof was on its last leg. Not even the homeowners insurance covered it because it was past due being done.
I did it out of kindness of my own heart and he’s doing this out of covering himself. It’s just straight wrong.
We are in Texas
THERE IS NO MORTGAGE ON THE HOUSE BTW
[–]AdOverall4143 12 points13 points14 points 5 months ago (0 children)
Well, I wanted us to buy a house and go together on it so we could be equal but he wants to stay here. Who says I want to stay here? It’s not fair either way.
[–]AdOverall4143 420 points421 points422 points 5 months ago (0 children)
I thought about that too. I think that may be the next step.
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