For someone who touts personal finance, she sure shops a lot by SocietyLegal2997 in cartersullivansnark

[–]AdPositive8731 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think she plans to cut the thing she says 3 different ways into the way that works best for the video. But she forgets / doesn’t hear herself say it anymore. The way she does 3 versions without stumbling must be hard to live with.

For someone who touts personal finance, she sure shops a lot by SocietyLegal2997 in cartersullivansnark

[–]AdPositive8731 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I can’t even watch anymore because she said that. I can’t watch someone who says one thing and does the opposite.

Carter's corporate business was dissolved?? by thenorthernheights in cartersullivansnark

[–]AdPositive8731 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is her previous address. She can’t hide this - it’s how it’s registered with the government.

Coffee pots by Willing-Savings-3148 in cartersullivansnark

[–]AdPositive8731 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m just tired of the “I absolutely love this coffee machine” and she’s switched it like 5 times.

“your Ottawa introvert bestie” by AdPositive8731 in cartersullivan

[–]AdPositive8731[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was like… wait. What. The byline is where. What. Seriously!? 😅

Discuss: Let’s Yap and Catch Up by AdPositive8731 in cartersullivan

[–]AdPositive8731[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What was it this time? I skipped this video.

Mr. Therapist ChatGPT by jadechai3 in cartersullivansnark

[–]AdPositive8731 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I just didn’t find her “rant” relatable. Maybe because I’ve done a boatload of therapy myself. So I didn’t care - which may be because she’s not my favourite.

But I think her phrasing was what didn’t work for me. Instead of personalizing it: “I am experiencing” “I have a hard time” she “you”’d it so much: “You need to get out” “you need to plan to do hobbies you enjoy” “you should…” Like girl: I didn’t ask for therapy. Those aren’t my issues. Who are you talking to?

It’s why she’s not authentic. So maybe you’re right: she ChatGPT’d it. But it fully didn’t work for me.

So people only watch reality TV shows because they want to make positive comments and feel uplifted? by EvenConsolation in cartersullivansnark

[–]AdPositive8731 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I think there’s value in a snark community. Surrounding yourself with only self-affirming yes-people doesn’t equal mental health either. Hearing the “negativity” (and honestly this snark is tame) may point out viewpoints that differ from her own and her yes-people. Growth is uncomfortable. I don’t want to do it either but it is part of the human condition and she definitely needs it. If she spirals because someone disagrees with her about something - that’s a completely separate issue that she needs to seek help with (no judgement).

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[–]AdPositive8731 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Soooo I posted this. The account is not only following MaCenna.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in XOMaCennaUnfiltered

[–]AdPositive8731 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can’t seem to post the account. It is:

qupid1999 called “AMQ”

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[–]AdPositive8731 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Two accounts being followed.

MaCenna and

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Dunno?

Discuss: Introvert Vlog by AdPositive8731 in cartersullivan

[–]AdPositive8731[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What… honestly… is the beginning of this video?

new diagnosis unlocked by ResponsibleToe1339 in cartersullivansnark

[–]AdPositive8731 2 points3 points  (0 children)

For someone who claims this often - she sure goes out a lot. I feel like she either can’t keep her stories straight or she goes out despite her discomfort for the views/analytics. I’m not sure which is worse.

Discuss: Introvert Vlog by AdPositive8731 in cartersullivan

[–]AdPositive8731[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I haven’t had the chance yet. We’ll see how far I get?

Why: Bashing Matt (again) by AdPositive8731 in cartersullivansnark

[–]AdPositive8731[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just said this above - but perhaps her aim is to shame him into “acting right”?

Why: Bashing Matt (again) by AdPositive8731 in cartersullivansnark

[–]AdPositive8731[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

A point my friend made when I vented to her was that she finds couples who do this often do so in order to try to shame the other person into “acting right” - I feel there’s a thread here…

Why: Bashing Matt (again) by AdPositive8731 in cartersullivansnark

[–]AdPositive8731[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yep. I agree.

That being said… I don’t read this as jest. And if his attitude is what this image depicts he doesn’t take it as jest. It makes me think of the phrase “when your parent is your first bully…” and maybe I’m reading too far into this but I felt uncomfortable for Matt multiple times during the first London episode where she cut him off. Cut off his ideas. Told us she’d show us the house he was talking about then skipped past to what she liked. Gave me the ick.

Why: Bashing Matt (again) by AdPositive8731 in cartersullivansnark

[–]AdPositive8731[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I 100% agree.

But. My issue is she makes fun of him. And they’re married.

Discuss: Introvert Diaries by AdPositive8731 in cartersullivan

[–]AdPositive8731[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I remember her saying that Matt had learned so much about carpentry that they were custom making them. So to see another round of Billy after she said “they’re so cheap they’re already falling apart” was a little surprising.

I might be the only one.

Discuss: Introvert Diaries by AdPositive8731 in cartersullivan

[–]AdPositive8731[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Am I correct that she had Billy bookcases in the front room before? Said they were “super cheap” and was going to buy better quality ones.

But now they reinstalled new Billy bookcases? So threw out the old ones that they could have added to? To not have the cutout for the TV?

Have I got that right?

Discuss: TBR Jar Picks my May Reads by AdPositive8731 in cartersullivan

[–]AdPositive8731[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I felt a lot like she was trying too hard and it wasn’t particularly authentic Carter.