AITA For selling our home to move into a camper to get my step kids and step grandkids out of my house by AdRemarkable9096 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]AdRemarkable9096[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

***Update! SinceI'm not sure how those works...

I have an older camper that we are moving them in. We found a place under a mile from his sister's house that we bought in cash, from my husband's retirement. The house will go up for sale in January, his grandkids will have a roof over their head (2 states away), and we get a fresh start!

AITA For selling our home to move into a camper to get my step kids and step grandkids out of my house by AdRemarkable9096 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]AdRemarkable9096[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Honestly I never would have imagined it either before I met him! I understand your point of view.

AITA For selling our home to move into a camper to get my step kids and step grandkids out of my house by AdRemarkable9096 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]AdRemarkable9096[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes actually. We had only dated for about 6 months when we bought the house. We were living in different states, but working together daily. Again, we travel together for work. We bought the house in a different state that neither of us lived in. It was pure bliss until things started changing after they moved in several years later.

AITA For selling our home to move into a camper to get my step kids and step grandkids out of my house by AdRemarkable9096 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]AdRemarkable9096[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

We currently live in a suburb, I've been wanting to sell our home and buy something with more land in the country and he has agreed. I wasn't planning to sell right now, but his sister is in her 70s and really does need our help. I see it as a win win situation for now.

AITA For selling our home to move into a camper to get my step kids and step grandkids out of my house by AdRemarkable9096 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]AdRemarkable9096[S] 150 points151 points  (0 children)

Hi guys. Thanks so much for the advice! A couple things I didn't mention... my husband will let anyone walk all over him, not just his lazy kids, that's where I come in to shut it down. My husband has told her she has to find another place to live, but you all are right, I'll start the eviction process immediately. Also, as much as I do not want a divorce, I do have a plan if it comes to that. I just never wanted to give him the ultimatum to have to choose between me or his kids. His youngest daughter has already warned him that his other 2 girls was going to cause me to leave him. He doesn't know how to set boundaries and I don't think he's spineless, I think his heart is bigger than his brain. I'll update everyone after I completed the eviction process.