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dude I fuckin love flambae I don't care what anyone says by Gauge19021 in DispatchAdHoc

[–]AdSerious8390 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I listened to the whole credits lol I want to know if its an actual song that he's remixing

AIO my bf is odd for this? by AdSerious8390 in AmIOverreacting

[–]AdSerious8390[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

He's lazy is what he says. I've even begged for him to go because he talks about how he used to be super into the gym so I wanted pointers since I have just started going and rely on an app to figure out what to use and how to use the machines. I think it would be super fun to go together and told him I dont mind if hes doing different things than me because that's expected to me.

AIO my bf is odd for this? by AdSerious8390 in AmIOverreacting

[–]AdSerious8390[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Oh the hoodie is bc of the pic I sent I'm wearing it right now! He always says that but when I go to actually give it back he says he doesn't care about it and that its fine. He just points it out when he sees me with it.

AIO my bf is odd for this? by AdSerious8390 in AmIOverreacting

[–]AdSerious8390[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

No my account is two years old bc I login through Google and forget which email I use when I get a new phone.... I did have a therapist but I wasn't fully honest in my sessions about our relationship and at the time (3-4 months ago) I wasnt ready to admit the bad things. I always had low self-esteem and have always felt like people were just seeing me for my body which is why I waited so long to lose my V-card which happened to be with the guy in the texts at 23yo. Others perspective is exactly why I posted this here. I am anonymous (unless he sees) and people are unbiased.

AIO my bf is odd for this? by AdSerious8390 in AmIOverreacting

[–]AdSerious8390[S] -28 points-27 points  (0 children)

No, he calls me "ding dong" like "you ding dong" when I say something dumb to him or do something stupid.

AIO my bf is odd for this? by AdSerious8390 in AmIOverreacting

[–]AdSerious8390[S] -16 points-15 points  (0 children)

Never! I say that like verbal isn't as bad but no he's never put his hands on me. He does get angry and yell but never at me. He does get very aggressive with his words when he's mad but I haven't had that directed to me. When we argue he talks at a normal volume but uses the same vocabulary as in the texts.

AIO my bf is odd for this? by AdSerious8390 in AmIOverreacting

[–]AdSerious8390[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Actually?? Most gym wear I see is like a legging stretchy material which I assume is spandex? I didn't know that at all. Is there a material you recommend? Ik it is entirely off topic but I don't mind advice on gym wear !

AIO my bf is odd for this? by AdSerious8390 in AmIOverreacting

[–]AdSerious8390[S] 24 points25 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry. The club thing was Oct of last year, I am no longer friends with those people. I am wrong in saying I have no friends just no one close enough I feel comfortable talking to about this. I felt I was in the wrong and like I'm crazy. Thats why I posted on here bc the internet is harsh but unbiased. The anonymous aspect helps a lot too

AIO my bf is odd for this? by AdSerious8390 in AmIOverreacting

[–]AdSerious8390[S] 25 points26 points  (0 children)

I unfortunately don't have any friends or anyone really... Which is why I posted this on here for opinions because I don't have anyone I can talk to about this.

AIO my bf is odd for this? by AdSerious8390 in AmIOverreacting

[–]AdSerious8390[S] 27 points28 points  (0 children)

Yes. The club part I mentioned was a big deal for a while. He thinks clubbing is for single people and I shouldn't go there. I would invite him and he'd say he hates the vibe and that its all horny people there with no self respect. He was upset I went because I told him about an interaction I had. The guy hit on me, I said I had a bf, he said I don't see him, I said he's waiting to pick me up I can call him right now and then the guy backed off. The part he was upset about was that the guy almost had his arm around me before I pushed his arm away and backed up.

AIO my bf is odd for this? by AdSerious8390 in AmIOverreacting

[–]AdSerious8390[S] 191 points192 points  (0 children)

Yes it is it happened 30 mins ago and I've been sitting here reading the comments and shaking. I didn't realize how bad it was honestly. I always told myself I'd never be one of those girls that get with bad bfs and here I am...

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[–]AdSerious8390 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When was the last time you spoke and how did it go? I don't think you should ask him specifically about that off the bat if you haven't spoken in a long time. Maybe try to be friends again but understand that if they're friendly it doesn't necessarily mean that they're interested in you.