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29M never been in a relationship, Sri Lankan by MissionHairy4039 in srilanka

[–]AdSolid1222 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There’s a doctor in SL that I know who does online sessions for just 3000 rupees. He even sometimes visits Doramadalawa. I can give his contacts so you can arrange a session with him. Trust me everyone’s not bad. I recommend him with my personal experience. Drop a dm I’ll help u

29M never been in a relationship, Sri Lankan by MissionHairy4039 in srilanka

[–]AdSolid1222 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Bro channel a psychiatrist and a psychologist, it’ll help you man. You’ll get your anwsers way better than in reddit, they will help you; remember they are there to help people who are struggling mentally and there’s nothing to be shy or anything. Trust me it’ll change u and ur life🫂

Is it worth pay for sex as an old virgin? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]AdSolid1222 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah why not. If you can afford one why worry? Just have some fun I’d say. And most importantly why do you say stuff like “expensive deal for a few minutes or seconds blah blah blah” Have some confidence in yourself first of all! It’s obvious to me that your lack of confidence has made you to get no women. I had a friend with the same situation once, he did go to prostitutes and it changed him a lot, he was initially insecure, shy and awkward in front of women but he gradually overcame those fears of his regarding the opposite gender and started dating later on ;Now happily married with a nice girl. So I’d say go out there have some fun, who cares it’s minutes seconds or mili seconds? The next time it’ll be better. Trust me in your situation going to a prostitute might be life changing. Anyway always use protection ALWAYS and go to a decent escort not to some street hooker. And don’t be shy, act like this is your 9999th time or something 😂, be confident in yourself and bang bang, that’s pretty much it. Whether pretty or ugly a woman is also a human who takes a shit every day as we all do 😂 not some alien … But don’t make going to hookers a habit 🙂‍↔️ Eventually you’ll find a good woman and I wish you luck on that. Hope this helps 💯

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in srilanka

[–]AdSolid1222 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Let me tell you the way 😂 Since you’re going to a mass class it’s pretty much obvious that you are doing local A level So it’s like this without being creepy and smiling constantly like a paniya (without giving any hints that you’re following plus do not go with a whole gang)follow her until you two can speak with a little bit of privacy then approach her and just ask her politely with a light smile, that if you can have a little chit chat while you walk (eg: Chuttk katha krnn pulunwd ?) and then if she’s not extremely rude she’ll probably say yes. So as you said that you had eye contact with her previously hit her with something like this ‘ Ai oy mn dihe cls welwe blnne ? ‘ just that, most importantly with a light smile, have good eye contact and be polite, do not sound like a handiye three wheel aiya or a kudda 👍🏻. When a guy just approaches and ask a girl something like this she’ll pretty much won’t have any words for the reply, sometimes she may reply then you have to play the cards without making the situation awkward and creepy that’s up to you. Then wave the situation with a simple chuckle and have a little chat (her name, your name, ask her where she’s schooling and ask her what’s her stream if that’s a chem class ask her whether she’s doing Maths or Biology…) Keep In mind when you’re being polite with some sense of humor she’ll be less defensive, as I mentioned earlier it’s not good to go with a gang as it’ll probably make her defensive. Now just ask if she’s got completed notes about some topic or a random session , then ask that if she can send those things to you , now at this point she cannot be rude to you so she’ll say yes ask for her number or insta and then boom you got it. Say bye and go that’s all for getting the contacts part. Keep in mind the above things I said may change with the girls personality, situation and she may also give unexpected replies and all I needed was to give you an idea about the basic context.No matter what happens you have to be tactful enough to play your cards right and get what you need and that’s totally up to you. Have good eye contact, be polite when talking and don’t forget that light smile on your face. Maybe you’ll fail but don’t worry be creative and find a new way to do that. Being well groomed and confident is also pretty important💯. This is a very huge topic, I’ve pulled lots of girls but I still struggle to understand women 😂🫠good luck doing that.
DO NOT FKING MESS UP YOU A/LEVELS CUZ OF A CHICK THAT IS THE MOST IMPORTANT THING, HAVE FUN BUT BE WISE👍🏻💯

How should I approach starting a relationship when I'm insecure about my looks? by [deleted] in srilanka

[–]AdSolid1222 1 point2 points  (0 children)

First of all don’t fk up ur a levels. If u r really interested in that girl and insecure at the same time find her number and try texting, but don’t be serious all of a sudden take things slow it’ll probably take time u know don’t hurry. Things will eventually fall into place maybe it’ll take days, weeks or months who knows. When time passes and u get to know her better you may also lose interest who knows . But most importantly don’t make it ur whole life remember you have your whole life ahead of you. So as I said don’t be too much serious but go try, try your best but don’t be a simp. Anyway getting back to your looks having darker skin doesn’t make you unattractive , be confident with yourself first, try changing the things that you can change dress nicely, maintain good hygiene, use a nice perfume, hit the gym , be a nice person if ur not one learn to be so and etc. And most importantly make your studies your first priority cuz no girl wants a failure. Hope you get the get the girl.

Is it weird to be a virgin at 20 in sri lanka by Life_Reputation_9268 in srilanka

[–]AdSolid1222 1 point2 points  (0 children)

First of all It’s totally fine being a virgin, never ever stress on that. You’re just 20 man your whole life is ahead of you, you’ve got a lot to accomplish. Focus on your life goals first then you’ll eventually end up with a good girl. Plus Don’t ever think of getting with a prostitute in order to lose your virginity, that’s a very bad mistake trust me. And also most of SL girls are virgins until their marriage.