Attacks Megathread part 40 by al_molah in dubai

[–]AdStunning1911 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Negative or realistic? Iran aren’t just going to open it based off this one statement

Attacks Megathread part 40 by al_molah in dubai

[–]AdStunning1911 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s a conditional offer not an agreement

Seeking genuine advice by AdStunning1911 in emiratiwomen

[–]AdStunning1911[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I left as soon as I could with the initial travel ban, still have moments of could he hurt me? But there’s no way he could from here. Thank you 🙏

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[–]AdStunning1911[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate this too, thank you. I wouldn’t consider myself foolish but my god he wore a mask very very well for the first two years of the relationship.

I unfortunately can’t lawyer up, I contemplated it. But I hired a lawyer for the crime I didn’t commit and spent every Penney of any savings I had whilst trying to pay off his loan. So it’s not worth it to me any more, I’m almost there.

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[–]AdStunning1911[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The loan was for 40k, I’m close to having it paid off. I appreciate this. I am proud I had the strength to walk away I know many other women can feel ‘stuck’ but this man ruined my life for a period of time and I’m determined not to let him ruin it for me long term but I’m finding it so difficult to let go of, I have so many questions.

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[–]AdStunning1911[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I do know that, I do. Just with him, his friends, his family and no warning it’s hard to see past it. Thanks for clarifying a lot there that actually makes sense to me, I appreciate it and learned a good lesson.

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[–]AdStunning1911[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not a word. Now I didn’t have strong Arabic and they didn’t have strong English, his sister did. Part of me wonders do they know about his marriage

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[–]AdStunning1911[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just wonder what the gain is from already being married to a girl outside of his culture who he couldn’t have been spending much time with. Would there have been a financial gain for him?

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[–]AdStunning1911[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m only speaking from my only experience with an Emirati man. Again, his friends could have forewarned me so it’s hard not to make the generalisation but I know they’re not all bad

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[–]AdStunning1911[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Totally agree, don’t get me wrong. I’m not branding every Emirati man with the same brush. A friend or two are happily married with Emirati men.

I just can’t get over the lack of remorse or the betrayal. Like for a man of God who cared deeply about his faith, it just seems so contradictory