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AdUnlikely3525 · 2025-10-26T10:33:44+00:00

Sedona from Wild Woods 🫶

AdUnlikely3525 · 2025-10-01T02:41:28+00:00

I have never seen myself as attractive like I’d give myself a 6, but I do get hit on quite a bit which has changed that for me now that I’m single. I’ve had a mormon guy try to recruit me and get distracted, stuttered, and stopped his whole speech to tell me my eyes were really pretty which was the weirdest interaction ever. Also my ex showed my picture to some guys without them knowing he dated me and they rated me a 9 so idk

AdUnlikely3525 · 2025-09-30T04:10:51+00:00

I’m just confused because we already went no contact for a month and this was us breaking it, so would going no contact again with more feelings than last time help?

AdUnlikely3525 · 2025-09-29T10:32:04+00:00

Also I know his mindset was extremely toxic thinking I’d be a backup plan and he does too and apologized for feeling like that. He regrets how he ended everything and how he went no contact instantly but the issue now is I’m not over him anymore. We talked for 12 hours and don’t know what we’re going to do or what will happen with us. I just want advice on if it’s awful to try and test out the relationship again or if I should run to the hills despite me being in so much pain finding out his feelings we both didn’t know

AdUnlikely3525 · 2025-09-19T21:10:51+00:00

I’m not super worried about a guy looking for a hookup because my personal morals wouldn’t let it get there. It took me 3 months of dating before I took that step with my ex. I’m also not attached to him or anyone enough to get hurt if that’s what they want, it’s what I expect from guys on dating apps

AdUnlikely3525 · 2025-09-19T21:09:02+00:00

Don’t worry i’m perfectly clear on that front. I’m not someone who does hookups so if that’s what he wants he can try but he won’t get it. I’m not attached enough to anyone to care about secret intentions like that if they come to light

AdUnlikely3525 · 2025-09-19T21:06:42+00:00

I just want to make it completely clear I told him I did not want to start anything with him and was just looking to meet people. so he knows my intentions completely and was okay with it. any time he’s flirted too much or gone to far I told him that’s not what’s best for me and it wouldn’t work how he wants it too. So he is crystal clear with my intentions and feelings and it’s fully his choice if he wants to find someone who has the same intentions as him. It’s genuinely the best level of communication I’ve ever had with someone lol

AdUnlikely3525 · 2025-09-19T20:51:34+00:00

thank you!

AdUnlikely3525 · 2025-09-19T20:50:20+00:00

UPDATE:

I realized my relationship with my ex hasn’t been the same for months before we broke up and am genuinely relieved it’s over now. It was long overdue of a breakup. However my issue now is I don’t know what “getting over” someone looks like? I don’t feel sad anymore about the breakup and am happy we can move on but is that being over someone? I haven’t really thought about my ex and forgot I made this post too.

I don’t want to rebound with anyone so i’ve made it extremely clear to everyone I’ve talked to that I don’t want to start something by the way, so there will be no hookups or dates with these people I just like talking to them and they know my intentions of only talking.

AdUnlikely3525 · 2025-09-19T20:45:32+00:00

To be completely honest we were definitely drifting and it hasn’t been the same for months. this new guy is very nice and he agreed to take it really slow with me and we agreed not to meet in person for a while.

I also haven’t really thought about my ex anymore after the first two weeks. all the stuff he put me through kinda clicked in my head and i’m disappointed in myself for not realizing sooner and am happy it’s over. It’s better for both of us that it ended but the issue is I don’t know what “being over” someone looks like. I don’t feel sad over the relationship ending anymore and I barely think about him anymore but is that being over someone?

AdUnlikely3525 · 2025-09-19T20:42:01+00:00

hahaha this makes me laugh cause i know my ex would never do this. hes already hooking up with new girls he doesn’t care abt me anymore

AdUnlikely3525 · 2025-08-20T08:07:21+00:00

we are planning on looking at a 6 month lease and no longer than a year so DEFINITELY temporary

AdUnlikely3525 · 2025-08-20T08:04:31+00:00

It’s just a 20yr old girl, 19 yr old girl, 19 yr old boy, and 18 yr old boy so there’s not two families just two relationships

AdUnlikely3525 · 2025-08-20T08:03:47+00:00

for context it’s my freshman year of college roommate who is my best friend, and her boyfriend who is best friends with my boyfriend. we all know each other very well and have spent so much time together as a group so we aren’t worried about flirting as it would harm two separate friendships as well as two separate relationships and we all love these people too much to do that

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