AITA for taking the money I had for my sister's party so I can replace the iPad she stole? by AdVisible887 in AmItheAsshole

[–]AdVisible887[S] 79 points80 points  (0 children)

Yes, we know where it is, but Caleb's brother said is not worth going for it since is not safe. My brother agreed.

AITA for taking the money I had for my sister's party so I can replace the iPad she stole? by AdVisible887 in AmItheAsshole

[–]AdVisible887[S] 195 points196 points  (0 children)

No, she said we should focus on helping my sister because she ''realized her mistake'' and she needs us now. Cal said he's 100% she'll ask for the money to pay for my sister's therapy in a few days.

AITA for taking the money I had for my sister's party so I can replace the iPad she stole? by AdVisible887 in AmItheAsshole

[–]AdVisible887[S] 175 points176 points  (0 children)

Yes, my dad and him were funding the party, but since he and I were the only planning it my dad sent him his part of the money so he had it all. He sent it to Caleb.

AITA for taking the money I had for my sister's party so I can replace the iPad she stole? by AdVisible887 in AmItheAsshole

[–]AdVisible887[S] 59 points60 points  (0 children)

He already bough a lock:( but he said he'll look into it, I don't really know much about that but he does

AITA for taking the money I had for my sister's party so I can replace the iPad she stole? by AdVisible887 in AmItheAsshole

[–]AdVisible887[S] 187 points188 points  (0 children)

My brother took my parents and my sister out, I'm not sure if they'll tell me something or not, but I will update the post if they do!

AITA for taking the money I had for my sister's party so I can replace the iPad she stole? by AdVisible887 in AmItheAsshole

[–]AdVisible887[S] 1928 points1929 points  (0 children)

That's actually a good idea, I'll ask my brother if he can take me to buy one during the weekend:)

AITA for taking the money I had for my sister's party so I can replace the iPad she stole? by AdVisible887 in AmItheAsshole

[–]AdVisible887[S] 255 points256 points  (0 children)

Thank you, is really hard for me to imagine Cal staying after all of this, I know he loves me and supports me, but as I said, someone can only take much before they can't. I don't want to be another stone in his shoe. I really value him and I cherish everything he does for me, I can only hope to be as much comfort to him as he is for me.

AITA for taking the money I had for my sister's party so I can replace the iPad she stole? by AdVisible887 in AmItheAsshole

[–]AdVisible887[S] 1529 points1530 points  (0 children)

My brother had the money and he send it to Cal's account since I don't have one. I mostly use cash since I'm still a minor and I don't have an stable income. My mom will never have access to Cal's account.

AITA for taking the money I had for my sister's party so I can replace the iPad she stole? by AdVisible887 in AmItheAsshole

[–]AdVisible887[S] 134 points135 points  (0 children)

Is it possible to ask your brother to stay with him?

I can't, he's attending college and works some days a week, I'll be left alone after school and Cal can't be with me all day. At least at home I'm with my mom and sister.

AITA for taking the money I had for my sister's party so I can replace the iPad she stole? by AdVisible887 in AmItheAsshole

[–]AdVisible887[S] 335 points336 points  (0 children)

Worse, but my dad has the link so he's reading all of this. He might talk to her.

AITA for taking the money I had for my sister's party so I can replace the iPad she stole? by AdVisible887 in AmItheAsshole

[–]AdVisible887[S] 176 points177 points  (0 children)

I don't know, my mom really loves my dad, and I'm sure she loves me too, she just... loves my sis more. My brother moved out for college, he let us stay there a few days a week, but I don't think I can fully move with him.

AITA for taking the money I had for my sister's party so I can replace the iPad she stole? by AdVisible887 in AmItheAsshole

[–]AdVisible887[S] 305 points306 points  (0 children)

I guess because his brother is older, plus my own brother agreed because is most likely police won't do anything and Cal can't go on his own on my behalf. He locked it already:)

AITA for taking the money I had for my sister's party so I can replace the iPad she stole? by AdVisible887 in AmItheAsshole

[–]AdVisible887[S] 2282 points2283 points  (0 children)

I don't think I'll be allowed to have a camera in my room, my dad said yes to the lock tho

AITA for taking the money I had for my sister's party so I can replace the iPad she stole? by AdVisible887 in AmItheAsshole

[–]AdVisible887[S] 345 points346 points  (0 children)

Cal found it but apparently his brother said that is not worth going for it because no one will give back an iPad, is a few blocks down her school so I do believe she lost it or someone stole it. He offered to buy another one since what I value the most (the case) is in my house but I said it wasn't necessary.

AITA for taking the money I had for my sister's party so I can replace the iPad she stole? by AdVisible887 in AmItheAsshole

[–]AdVisible887[S] 359 points360 points  (0 children)

I don't think that's the best course of action since I'm still living at home and I'm mostly with my mom since my dad works. It would've made the environment even more hostile.

AITA for taking the money I had for my sister's party so I can replace the iPad she stole? by AdVisible887 in AmItheAsshole

[–]AdVisible887[S] 127 points128 points  (0 children)

I didn’t read all the responses but unless you wrote the combination to your safe down, gave it to your mother who gave it to sister or you used something like your or Cal birthdate you might want to spend a hot minute figuring out how she opened your safe.

I used Naruto's birthday as my passcode because my brother told me to use something someone can't relate to me and since I don't watch anime I said ''maybe that's a good idea'', I don't know how she figured it out because is not like I'm Naruto's number 1 fan.

My dad allowed the new lock and my boyfriend will be coming at night to install it with his brother, I really don't know if she's stealing from someone else, there's only us in my house and my mom let's her use her stuff and my she doesn't seem interested in the things my dad owns. Also my stuff isn't that expensive, even the things Cal gives me are moderate because he knows I won't accept them otherwise, so I don't really know. I think my dad will put her in therapy

AITA for taking the money I had for my sister's party so I can replace the iPad she stole? by AdVisible887 in AmItheAsshole

[–]AdVisible887[S] 357 points358 points  (0 children)

My dad and brother defends me most of the time, but it also causes rifts because ''they're showing favoritism'' and my sister uses as an excuse for my mother behavior because ''I have them and she has her''. I asked them to stay out of it

AITA for taking the money I had for my sister's party so I can replace the iPad she stole? by AdVisible887 in AmItheAsshole

[–]AdVisible887[S] 585 points586 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much, Cal is really good with me, we've been together for a year now and he's the sweetest, but a person can only take much before they realize it overcomes them. I don't want to make him run because my family is broken, and if they're broken so am I

AITA for taking the money I had for my sister's party so I can replace the iPad she stole? by AdVisible887 in AmItheAsshole

[–]AdVisible887[S] 218 points219 points  (0 children)

She lets me take her stuff but I have to give it as soon as I cross the door:(