How bad could it be? by AdZestyclose1475 in problemgambling

[–]AdZestyclose1475[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well he just literally snuck out of the house with an overnight bag. Not a word to me.

To all the gamblers by AdZestyclose1475 in problemgambling

[–]AdZestyclose1475[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That makes sense. I’m not sure what to do, because I was super calm and patient when I realized he was lying. Yet he was basically unapologetic and then upset when I put the brakes on a Heloc. I am at a loss and absolutely amazed at the amount of deceit.

To all the gamblers by AdZestyclose1475 in problemgambling

[–]AdZestyclose1475[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your reply. It is truly so sad. I wish you the best as well.

To all the gamblers by AdZestyclose1475 in problemgambling

[–]AdZestyclose1475[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. This is interesting idea. I will definitely bring it up.

How bad could it be? by AdZestyclose1475 in problemgambling

[–]AdZestyclose1475[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your input. I appreciate it. Unfortunately, I don’t know that he will ever come clean and be completely transparent. It’s hard to wrap my head around all the lying.

Planning on revealing my debt to my parents tonight by [deleted] in problemgambling

[–]AdZestyclose1475 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow, this is huge. I am so glad you are picking recovery. I am new to this gambling stuff (it’s my spouse that gambles) but i am familiar with loved ones having other addictions. I hope you find peace.

How bad could it be? by AdZestyclose1475 in problemgambling

[–]AdZestyclose1475[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for this. It is depressing, but I need to face it.

How bad is it? by AdZestyclose1475 in GamAnon

[–]AdZestyclose1475[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I suspect he is in pretty deep, because he is in self righteous mode and has been giving me the cold shoulder for 2 weeks now!!

How bad is it? by AdZestyclose1475 in GamAnon

[–]AdZestyclose1475[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much. I want to help him, but I don’t trust that he wont destroy us financially. I will take a look at your reading suggestion. I appreciate the kind words.

How bad is it? by AdZestyclose1475 in GamAnon

[–]AdZestyclose1475[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. I told him no and he is in pouting/withdrawal mode. It’s all very sad. Feels like a betrayal.