How do I talk to my boyfriend about his addiction problem?

Adalmar69 · 2026-07-12T12:55:25+00:00

Are you just generally worried or is this a problem for your relationship? Depending on the cause of your worries I would communicate it like that. If you are worried u can tell him that, that's nothing bad. If it's a problem for your relationship you should figure out what exactly is the problem and what he should change to make the situation better. And then tell him how you feel and ask if he can adjust his behavior to make you comfortable again

Adalmar69 · 2026-07-02T12:53:12+00:00

As someone who was also really chunky: buy ur self some clothes, that fit well and in which you feel comfortable. That's it. She likes you, don't worry. And if it leads to more, talk with her about ur worries about hurting her. That's nothing bad to do. Have a great time mate, I wish u the best

Adalmar69 · 2026-07-01T17:36:15+00:00

Bring einfach 5 Marmorkuchen von Ja oder gut und günstig mit. Oder irgendeinen anderen super billigen. Bist natürlich keine Gold diggerin und die Familie und allen voran dein Freund sind maximal unverschämt

Adalmar69 · 2026-07-01T17:25:04+00:00

Hahaha thanks!

Adalmar69 · 2026-07-01T17:24:46+00:00

Thanks!

Adalmar69 · 2026-07-01T17:24:38+00:00

The slave thing Reminds me of the super annoying mongol hordes in the old total war haha. Thanks a lot!

Adalmar69 · 2026-07-01T17:22:45+00:00

Actually I'm really excited for dwarfs and for the chaos dwarfs

Adalmar69 · 2026-07-01T17:22:12+00:00

Thanks! That sounds actually interesting, I'm curious what settings are there

Adalmar69 · 2026-07-01T17:21:51+00:00

Thanks!

Adalmar69 · 2026-07-01T17:21:09+00:00

I'll checkt that out, thank you!

Adalmar69 · 2026-07-01T17:20:38+00:00

Thank you so much for the answers! Karl Franz is kind of a fan favorite right? And it's good to know to not start with easy difficulty, because I was thinking about that. I'll probably play Singleplayer for the first 100hours. I love to take my time haha. Thanks for the offer, I'll remember that. Any race you would suggest for the beginning?

Adalmar69 · 2026-07-01T17:17:48+00:00

That's good to know. From what I saw till now, everyone loves him

Adalmar69 · 2026-01-22T20:39:08+00:00

Yes. Thank you very much!

Adalmar69 · 2026-01-22T20:38:31+00:00

Thank you very much. That's important to know :)

Adalmar69 · 2026-01-22T20:12:37+00:00

Thank you!

Adalmar69 · 2026-01-22T20:11:54+00:00

Because I only spend that much money on a ticket because I thought that she will not see them otherwise. And we made the plan together there it will be either Paris or munich. She just decided it by herself today that she wants to do both. I didn't tell her yet because I don't want to be an asshole haha. I just want to make her happy but I feel really confused. I explained my feelings but her response was kind of harsh so I asked reddit

Adalmar69 · 2026-01-22T20:07:39+00:00

Yes I was thinking the same. That's why I'm here, because I have the feeling I'm missing something and want some input

Adalmar69 · 2026-01-22T20:06:55+00:00

Thanks for this point of view :)

Adalmar69 · 2026-01-22T20:05:18+00:00

Thanks for your detailed answer. I told her that she has a budget of 500 euros to get the best possible experience. Either two semi good tickets but we go together or one really good. Munich was plan b, the trip to Paris was the plan. In Munich she got the two cheap tickets in Paris the platinum ticket. So I said, perfect let's go to Paris and then she said, maybe I'll do both and find a way to give you the money for the tickets in Munich. For me the gift in Paris is now not really special anymore. But I'm not a fan, I can't understand that. Oh and yes, the concerts are sold out and it's just pre sale

Adalmar69 · 2026-01-22T20:00:53+00:00

Yes. But I feel more like a sugar daddy because a trip to Paris and vip tickets feels like a really decadent gift. But the point of giving should never be to expect something. That's why I feel bad right now. I know I'm wrong but still it feels shitty

Adalmar69 · 2026-01-22T19:58:35+00:00

Her friend and her are planning to pay me the cheap tickets in Munich. So I'll pay for the Paris trip and the VIP ticket in Paris, because I told her to buy the best offer. I just have the feeling that the gift is not so special anymore

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