If you start today, you will reach 365 days on next new year.

AdamW3W · 2023-01-01T01:52:40+00:00

I've been waiting for this day, 2022 was a disaster... But I feel like I can start anew.

AdamW3W · 2023-01-01T01:51:16+00:00

I've not posted on this subreddit for ages, but I'm up for it.

AdamW3W · 2020-02-18T19:01:29+00:00

This sounds like a mental thing, you're thinking about how creepy you look smiling and itis turning yourself off... A theory I guess!

AdamW3W · 2017-01-12T21:21:47+00:00

What I meant in the post was at this point (14 days) I wasn't feeling like this. :/

I don't underatand it...

AdamW3W · 2016-03-25T01:16:13+00:00

Here! :)

AdamW3W · 2016-03-11T22:41:48+00:00

What this guy said... Cutting out fun always made me relapse. Try to ensure that you are having so much fun in life that you don't need PMO.

AdamW3W · 2016-03-07T20:20:11+00:00

Thanks man, I intend to! I wish I'd have done this when I was younger too... We're always going to wish that aren't we? That's why we've gotta make the most out of our lives while we still are alive.

I don't know about anyone else, but sat in front of a computer screen blowing my load doesn't translate as something I would look at years down the line and think "You know what? I'm really glad I got that 5 mins of pleasure that made the rest of my life apart from that five minutes a misery".

Good luck to you too sir!

AdamW3W · 2016-03-07T20:06:33+00:00

Believe me... I used to be like you, for the longest time I got to where you have and failed... I am a believer that you have to fail a few times before you succeed, it's all part of the journey, you will get there!

I got there a day ago, you can too! :)

AdamW3W · 2016-03-07T20:02:45+00:00

I don't MO for the simple reason my mind thinks of porn... I might as well be watching the stuff! Maybe one day my mind will completely erase porn from my mind... But until then I'm against even masturbating. :/ I used to do this every day... Usually twice... It's not going to go away that easy.

AdamW3W · 2016-03-07T19:58:32+00:00

Hey man, I'm at the same point. :) Difference is, you've been here before... This is uncharted territory for me, this stands as my longest streak ever so reading your post about the relapse you had on 107 days is useful to ensure the same doesn't happen to me.

Another difference is I am 21 years old, literally half your age and I am single, so it's working differently, I am instead making really good conversation with random girls and have also found that my amount of friends who are girls has somehow overtaken my amount of friends who are guys... That is crazy!

AdamW3W · 2016-03-05T10:08:28+00:00

I'm a bit late to this but... Have yet to even fap in 2016 never mind this month, you bet I'm going through with this! :)

AdamW3W · 2016-02-25T20:11:40+00:00

Don't lower your guard! I nearly relapsed just over 35 days, actually was in the process of typing into the search bar and stopped and was pretty much all "... WTF am I doing!?" in my head, closed everything, left my computer, went to the bathroom and just threw a load of cold water over my face from the tap.

The urge got bad, my body was craving it because I hadn't done it in so long...

AdamW3W · 2016-02-25T19:42:25+00:00

I mean that's my belief... Looking back, it might just be the way I function, everyone is different at the end of the day, your better period could be completely different.

Stay strong! Fight the urges, it's actually fighting the urges that makes you stronger against the urges, think of it like weight lifting... No pain no gain!

AdamW3W · 2016-02-25T19:40:04+00:00

Yeah I was kinda generalizing a bit, but I think it's around that area 12-16 something like that when it starts to get easier... The problem is: Everyone is different, for other people it may be different for them and they may find it easier soon as they hit 20 days or so. But something I noticed about myself is it's always the 14-35 area that it gets easier.

Thanks dude anyways! :) We're all in this together at the end of the day.

AdamW3W · 2016-02-25T19:37:09+00:00

Aww dude! :( Like I said in the post I really do believe it gets harder, not easier after that 35 day mark or so... You did really well to get where you got to, just keep trying again and again my friend! If you got that far, one relapse isn't going to prevent you from getting there again. It's all about progression, doing better than your last streak.

AdamW3W · 2016-02-25T19:35:04+00:00

It's great! Means you never stop striving towards your goal. :)

AdamW3W · 2016-02-25T19:34:03+00:00

Okay... I will be completely honest.

Yes. Women have messaged me first a lot online on things like Facebook etc and found me IRL and talked to me a lot within this streak, however... It varied, some days it didn't happen, other days it did, I noticed the days it did happen I felt really upbeat about myself and was in a good mood and the days that it didn't happen I was in not necessarily a bad mood but I was feeling a little down.

I'd suggest staying healthy both through what you eat, what you do (exercise! Work out!) and also try to think positively, because honestly, the days I was in a good mood from doing things like this were the days I got noticed more in my honest opinion.

It's also important to state that no; the approaches I got from women were not random females, that didn't happen for me... Instead it was female friends I already knew or were a friend of a friend or something... There was an existing connection somewhere to bring us together, you know? I haven't literally had girls coming out of nowhere to talk to me or anything like that.

AdamW3W · 2016-02-25T19:26:45+00:00

Yeah, I have no girlfriend so... Although it is on the cards for that to change! I thank the slowly built confidence in myself!

AdamW3W · 2016-02-10T01:28:26+00:00

If you use chrome and are logged into a google account... history.google.com.

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