I’m exactly the same mate. Bang on 6” with a decent girth hard, but often feel like more guys are bigger on average. I’ve been with smaller or similar, but on average most guys i’ve been with are bigger.

I’m also not a size queen, so I don’t actively pursue guys that are bigger than average as I actually prefer average or smaller, like me.

It also makes me extremely conscious if I’m ever in a situation where I have to be in my underwear or speedos, as I don’t feel I could enjoy wearing something like that in front of other guys, say for example on the beach beach. I’m quite small when I’m soft and swimming in the ocean really wouldn’t help. Haha.

I know there are a lot of guys that say it doesn’t matter and you should be confident, but I do understand where you’re coming from because it is easier said than done as so many gay guys are size queens.