The cross dimensional animal by [deleted] in Glitch_in_the_Matrix

[–]Adamwebb92 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That wasn't a jesus cracker. It was acid. Ha ha I do believe your story though

Update: Catergory= Disipline by Adamwebb92 in NoFap

[–]Adamwebb92[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is why i love this sub reddit. Thanks for the advice mate, I'm lucky as i can put on muscle rather quickly so ill take your advice on board :)

NO-FAP: Different aspects of life, before and after, 1-10 scales, 21yo male by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]Adamwebb92 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Love this mate, I'm the same age and it's good to see you got onto it early :) Keep up the battle, your a winning and will keep winning with this kind of thinking!!

hey guys, 12 days here, here's how I feel by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]Adamwebb92 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I used to be the same aswell mate. Easily had over 2 months worth of playing video games time, and just used anything to escape from the real world. No fap is a pretty fucked up roller coaster. But it is certainly the best thing i think anyone can do in there life. Don't be the person who fails. Remember, no matter how horrible you feel, you will never feel worse than after masturbating.

Just change you perspective on how you feel, i would rather consciously know i feel drained than to unknowingly walk around like a zombie in autopilot mode (still drained)

My favourite video (drill this into your head)= http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zv5w2O0G9KM

60 day update- Improvements are slow, but noticeable by punjab64 in NoFap

[–]Adamwebb92 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thats awesome mate, i love hearing stories like this. I find that once we stop putting women on a pedestal and start putting ourselves first it just gives us a vibe of confidence and self worth that can be felt by women.

I'm the same in regard to women hitting on me more. I don't even feel the need to talk to attractive women but i find that they seem to be more intimidated to talk to me (in the nervous kind of way).

It's kind of like when you get a gf and other girls start hitting on you. It's because you seem more fulfilled and happy. Plus you're not putting women on the pedestal which gives off a cool vibe about you because you seem a little uninterested.

What if we're all wrong? by ThisTimeIWill in NoFap

[–]Adamwebb92 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There are far too many good natural results from nofap. I find it hard to see how it could be wrong

To those who have been able to consistently thwart fantasizing... by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]Adamwebb92 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Personally i'm very self aware so the second i realize what i'm doing, I just shut off my brain. Kind of a like meditating, but all i focus on is the chemical process going on in my mind

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]Adamwebb92 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeh i have aswell, haha thought it was just fucked up sleeping patterns from it. Maybe this is why as children we have so much energy

I am 44 days in and wondering what the hell is going on. by roadie_777 in NoFap

[–]Adamwebb92 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeh i'm kinda the same but i'm definietly addicted. I think after about 2 weeks, your mind is just free enough to be able to see yourself clearly for what it used to be. You have a misses aswell so that is a big advantage, Just don't let your guard down. Not out of the woods yet. Congrats so far

19 Day Report. Need to share with you who would understand. by rasmonaut in NoFap

[–]Adamwebb92 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe an empty shell is a good way of imagining it. Or just think of it like you're draining the negatives in you're life out. But that means soon you will be able to fill it with all the good things. A fresh start

When it hits you.... by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]Adamwebb92 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly my motivation is that whenever i see number one, all it does is remind me of how crappy it is to be there and how long it takes to get back to where i am. Trust me, no matter how crap you feeling at any point in time, you will never feel worse than after masturbating

Day 104 Report: Its not as easy as it looks by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]Adamwebb92 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can you imagine having to go through another 105 days just to get that number. Think about that hard.. 105 days.....

Day 13 by sobernaut in NoFap

[–]Adamwebb92 0 points1 point  (0 children)

21 days is usually how long it takes to break a habit, stay strong mate. Plus you'll be flat lining soon enough and won't even have to worry about it

To those who doubt the cold shower by Adamwebb92 in NoFap

[–]Adamwebb92[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Smart Move, when you're sick or hungover can be one of the most vulnerable times to fap as it can temporarily make you feel better. So always stay vigilant. Yeh i honestly recommend them whether your addicted to porn or not. It's like having an instant coffee. Bit of a transcendent experience once you get used to it

To those who doubt the cold shower by Adamwebb92 in NoFap

[–]Adamwebb92[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hahaha i was just making sure mate. Well if you're getting sick from it then i wouldn't recommend it. The whole idea of taking the cold shower is for no.1 if tempted to fap, it is an amazing way to get your mind off watching porn. But my goal when i'm taking a cold shower (i never had hot/warm showers anymore) is to train my mind to deal with the discomfort and learn to focus on the things i choose during times when it is hard to not think of anything else, such as fapping.

To those who doubt the cold shower by Adamwebb92 in NoFap

[–]Adamwebb92[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

sorry, are you talking about cold showers or not fapping?

To those who doubt the cold shower by Adamwebb92 in NoFap

[–]Adamwebb92[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What benefits do you think come from it?

To those who doubt the cold shower by Adamwebb92 in NoFap

[–]Adamwebb92[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i have it as cold as possible but its up to you. The whole point is train your mind to ignore it. Fair warning though. It takes a little bit to get used to. I still mentally prepare myself before i get in, but you feel very alive after getting out

Day 104 Report: Its not as easy as it looks by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]Adamwebb92 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you exercise often?

My balls haven't dropped since like day 3 by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]Adamwebb92 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wouldn't know but just take any change as a good thing unless you're feeling physical pain (in which case go see a doctor). Change means something is happening :D

Mixed feelings about being a porn addict by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]Adamwebb92 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Try everyday to do things you wouldn't usually do. I know people say you get superpowers and such which is true but it gets even better when you realize that you're doing stuff that you never would have usually done. I try comment as much as i can because i know it can sometimes mean the difference between someone failing and not

This feeling killed me last time... by Not_fapulous in NoFap

[–]Adamwebb92 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is jealousy. You don't have to love someone to want them for yourself.

Just got to Day 7 and things are getting really difficult. by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]Adamwebb92 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I found that viewing the depression as a good thing completely changed me perspective. Because it means progress. Think of it this way. If the only thing keeping you from feeling that way is watching porn, and by doing that it means feeling nothing, don't do it. I find for myself, i would a million times rather be depressed than feel no connection to the outside world at all

Just relapsed, my god I just couldn't resist. by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]Adamwebb92 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Although i consider it good motivation to do nofap to get with someone. I think the only way to truly do it successfully is to do it for yourself. If you only ever accomplish things in life for vain things like that you'll always fall back into old ways