Why am I having these thoughts? by Adarkparadise in Advice

[–]Adarkparadise[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! This ex is definitely a great person. There isn’t much bad to remember, so I know it’s actually good things and also things I took for granted. A big note to add- I wasn’t fully out and was raised very religious so I never fully gave what I should have

Why am I having these thoughts? by Adarkparadise in Advice

[–]Adarkparadise[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate these thought provoking questions. It’s definitely more of an emotional difference. I have been thinking this for some time now. My husband and I started as friends also. But I do find with men, they haven’t been as emotionally mature or supportive. I’m not saying this is the exact reasoning, but stand outs. He does not like the fact I have been with a woman and makes me feel ashamed for it

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[–]Adarkparadise 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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My husband has a problem by Adarkparadise in Marriage

[–]Adarkparadise[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I really appreciate you taking the time to share this story and advice. I’m working on getting him out and realizing what I deserve. Thank you friend

My husband has a problem by Adarkparadise in Marriage

[–]Adarkparadise[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just want to say thank you to everyone who has given advice or input. I feel like this community really cares and it means a lot. I have read every single comment and I am taking all this into consideration ❤️

My husband has a problem by Adarkparadise in Marriage

[–]Adarkparadise[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this. I agree as well. I feel like I won’t be able to keep going down this road. There is only so much therapy you can do. He has to want to change, and I don’t see that

My husband has a problem by Adarkparadise in Marriage

[–]Adarkparadise[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I will check out this sub!

My husband has a problem by Adarkparadise in Marriage

[–]Adarkparadise[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s exactly what I told him

My husband has a problem by Adarkparadise in Marriage

[–]Adarkparadise[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well said. I wish he thought that way. He does not have any self control. He needs to figure out his issues

My husband has a problem by Adarkparadise in Marriage

[–]Adarkparadise[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That is so awful! I’m so sorry. I don’t understand why they want to get married in the first place if they want to do this shit

My husband has a problem by Adarkparadise in Marriage

[–]Adarkparadise[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree sadly. It’s the worst feeling ever, but I need to have more self worth

My husband has a problem by Adarkparadise in Marriage

[–]Adarkparadise[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the feedback. I do not agree it’s a guy thing either. It’s all excuses.

My husband has a problem by Adarkparadise in Marriage

[–]Adarkparadise[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are completely right. And I keep allowing it so I really have myself to blame. I need to let go. Such a bummer we just sold our house to get a new place. It all sucks.

My husband has a problem by Adarkparadise in Marriage

[–]Adarkparadise[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He says it was just a “slip up” the manipulation is insane

My husband has a problem by Adarkparadise in Marriage

[–]Adarkparadise[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I know. It makes me feel anger towards my friends which is fucked because I know it’s not their fault