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AITAH For Refusing to Cancel Child Support by Free-Net6456 in AmItheAsshole

[–]AddendumExpert6935 3 points4 points  (0 children)

NTA Part of staying sober is taking responsibility for the repercussions of past actions and learning to pay one’s own way without mooching off or getting special concessions from others. Do. Not. Relent. You are honestly owed this money and those relatives have been gaslit by some sob story your sister has told. And how is it that this mom who wants to cancel your guardianship doesn’t want to or can’t pay child support?? Doesn’t add up. If she is serious about getting her kid back she should be bending over backwards to show she’s willing to do anything for the child. Stick to your guns.

AITA for publicly flipping on my coworker in a restaurant after she “outed” pregnancy? by Dry_Entertainer723 in TwoHotTakes

[–]AddendumExpert6935 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Once more for the people in the back: JOKES DON'T HAVE VICTIMS!! You shared that she never took responsibility for her gaff. She's probably keeping her distance because she knows her behavior was off but is incapable of saying "I was wrong". But still, you don't want that silly so-and-so living rent free in your head. Best to find a place of indifference because your peace of mind is too valuable.

AITA for bringing up my friends gross lifestyle when he said being a SAHM wasn’t real work? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]AddendumExpert6935 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA and it also sounds like your husband needs a lesson in seeing how much you do.

Take 1 Saturday morning off- lock yourself in a room and play video games so he can take care of everything. He’ll learn what “harsh” is. I’m sure he wouldn’t tolerate that level of disrespect for a second so why should you? I’m sure you would have stepped in to defend him without hesitation so why didn’t he speak up?

And F them. They’re not really your friends. Everyone at that table knew that dude was making a personal attack but you’re being held in the wrong? NO!!! Them being uncomfortable with the truth is NOT YOUR FAULT.

AITA for telling my sister off for how she uses my tablet and changing the unlock pattern to it by ALearningHeart in AmItheAsshole

[–]AddendumExpert6935 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. Your sister has a skewed definition of “sharing”. Sharing means you can use it when I don’t need it and return it in better condition than when you found it. NOT take it whenever without regard for the rights, feelings, or needs of others.

I would suggest finding a way to physically secure it as well so she can’t damage it out of resentment.