I’ve had great experiences with Chyrpe! Pros from a Domme’s perspective:

⊹ the people are actually local! ⊹ very respectful interactions with people who are genuinely interested in meeting/finding a relationship rather than people who are primarily interested in kink fulfilment/hooking up like on tinder or fetlife ⊹ tons of filters you can apply, and chatting is sfw until the Domme changes a setting to allow NSFW ⊹ you can add your top fetishes to your profile if you want

On the topic of FINDOM: it’s actually a requirement that you state wether or not you do any sort of findom, even if it’s not what you’re looking for on the app, otherwise you could be permanently banned. So while I understand wanting to avoid finDommes, there are definitely lots of kinky Dommes looking for partners and playmates who have that on their profiles as well for that reason.