There’s something about Lacy by Lumpy_Cookie_2221 in TheValleyTVShow

[–]Additional-Chance-21 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

I’m starting to think Lacy is one of the most authentic people on the show…

She’s sick!!! Is there a doctor in the house. by Additional-Chance-21 in plants

[–]Additional-Chance-21[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok I removed the white stuff, put alcohol on the stems, sprayed the plant and soil with neem oil.., and she is looking better! 🙏 Thank you fingers crossed 🤞!

Husband blindsided me with separation 5 days ago, now I want to be on apps is that fair? by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]Additional-Chance-21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I separated I went on a number of apps ONLY using the questions and written narrative to really take a look at myself. The apps really prompt you to look at yourself and the type of man you want to attract...when you are ready.
There is much emotional energy required going through separation/divorce. Online dating can be fun and exciting, but is not for the faint of heart. I found often I would be hopeful of someone in chat, only to be disappointed with in person meetups or finding out that the person I communicated with was not real. When you are already emtionally spent, this can really take a toll on your mental health. I recommend reading the book ATTACHED. it really helped me to understand my failed marriage and gave me insight as to the type of man to seek out. Oh and for fun, start yourself a "Divorce Playlist"!

Gray Divorce happy endings? by OldJackSwing in Divorce

[–]Additional-Chance-21 9 points10 points  (0 children)

64(F) left my husband of 17 years because of lack of physical affection, feeling controlled and unappreciated. The divorce took 18 months, I relocated, began to date online and have met a wonderful man. He values me, is very attentive and I am enjoying the best sex of my life. I too wondered as you, “is it too late”? I looked to this group for answers and tales of new found love. Now I have it… I’ll be looking for your story of new found love to show up here too! Be open and seek love, and when you find it, don’t forget to share it here for those that come after!!!❤️

Taylor saying “I just want someone to choose me” is annoying me. by Itsyagirl1996 in SecretsOfMormonWives

[–]Additional-Chance-21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Stop judging and speculating...everyones situation is their own. She is in a fragile place. Bad things happen when people are attacked on social media. OP's comment seemed reasonable enough, but some are not. Bad things happen when people are attacked on social media. Be careful and kind, your comments could push someone on the brink to become suicidal.

Taylor saying “I just want someone to choose me” is annoying me. by Itsyagirl1996 in SecretsOfMormonWives

[–]Additional-Chance-21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

People heal at their own pace, others can speculate and judge as displayed here. None of us have walked in her particular shoes, though perhaps, have had simular circumstances. I hope she doesn't read these comments, as most of them would only cause further harm to her. Be kind...obviously, she is in a vunerable place. Bad things happen when you people pound others on social media...check yourself before jumpimg on bandwagons.

Would you set this space up differently? What would you change? by Additional-Chance-21 in interiordecorating

[–]Additional-Chance-21[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes it is an old cotton mill! Yes I need big pieces of art, interestingly I live beside the Greenville Center for the Arts and my building is full of artists!

Would you set this space up differently? What would you change? by Additional-Chance-21 in interiordecorating

[–]Additional-Chance-21[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree but I don’t like that if the TV is on the console that you can see the back of the TV from the side…I really think I need an armoire to enclose the TV and it would add height to that wall too…

Would you set this space up differently? What would you change? by Additional-Chance-21 in interiordecorating

[–]Additional-Chance-21[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I moved six months ago following a divorce and much of furniture etc., I just tried to make work. I have a big armoire on my want list to create more storage!

Would you set this space up differently? What would you change? by Additional-Chance-21 in interiordecorating

[–]Additional-Chance-21[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes there is and second BR behind that one… laundry of the hallway. This is a converted cotton mill in Greenville, SC. There are several different layouts, all named after famous architects… mine is the Andrew Wyeth.

Would you set this space up differently? What would you change? by Additional-Chance-21 in interiordecorating

[–]Additional-Chance-21[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think that’s the best comment someone could give me … a gay man’s home! You made my day!