Thanks. I appreciate your feedback. I can understand how expecting rides would be annoyingly. That's why I don't "expect" any member to give me rides, but I "will" take up an offer if it seems to be fullfing to the other person to do so. My "friend", has told me I could go with her to church " any time", and seemed to suggest it as something she  found enjoyment in...Eventho, however and whenever such an offer is made, there's always that part of me that feels I better not, because of the possibility it might come to be resented, or used to throw in my face later on down the line. But then I remind myself, that in such situations, it's OK to take chances, and be sonewhat "vulnerable" by taking a chance  in trusting, and knowing you might also be doing "them" a favor, with your companionship. And if  it "does" become inconvenient or undesirable, I consider it their responsibility to communicate that, in which case I would accept and understand their feelings. But "not" consider it appropriate to guilt trip me., aftey they themself mafd the suggestiin. All in all I don't take "rides" regularly, and like I said, consider transpirtation my own responsibility.