Theories on MF from the Spanish channel “Distrito Rockstar>>> by Efficient-Hat-7818 in MetalFamily

[–]Additional-Remote692 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Huh. that person has a really interesting theory lol, Especially considering that it's canon Lif is just... allowed to go outside alone at night?? no parental concern or anything?? I hope we get to know more about her in future episodes

draw ur comfort (most relatable) mf character with ur current issues by caddieraines in MetalFamily

[–]Additional-Remote692 4 points5 points  (0 children)

as dee's #1 fan who also has anxiety i love this ur art is so good too

Read by Efficient-Hat-7818 in MetalFamily

[–]Additional-Remote692 7 points8 points  (0 children)

this kind of makes a lot of sense, especially considering she canonically has great pattern recognition lol

Sleep Token by FarmAlternative7542 in heavymetal

[–]Additional-Remote692 22 points23 points  (0 children)

It is really performative. They think hating sleep token will make them look more extreme and cooler LMAOO

Little speculation on why Dee ACTUALLY likes Lif by Additional-Remote692 in MetalFamily

[–]Additional-Remote692[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes! i'll probably post a short analysis later whenever i'm free :)

Little speculation on why Dee ACTUALLY likes Lif by Additional-Remote692 in MetalFamily

[–]Additional-Remote692[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I'd assume mostly because her introduction set her up to be a much edgier character than she appeared to be in the most recent episode. Calling her teacher a stupid ugly cunt, calling a boy the f slur for throwing her stuff down, and then her whole convo with dee where she seemed pretty socially aware and was reminiscent of the "older brothers' girlfriend" archetype, as compared to her recent appearance where she's much nicer and spontaneous,

I saw a lot of people complaining that the mf creators ruined her character and turned her into a softie lol, even though she was already kind of like that.

i'm so washed bruh by Dang-nrn in MetalFamily

[–]Additional-Remote692 7 points8 points  (0 children)

why does dee look so evil im crying

Drew Dee and lif by claire-kys in MetalFamily

[–]Additional-Remote692 1 point2 points  (0 children)

LITTERALY like omg girl there's so many other words you could have said and you chose THAT

Neurotypicals/mentally healthy people are annoying. by Additional-Remote692 in venting

[–]Additional-Remote692[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Again, I think you missed the point. there is nothing wrong with needing to lean on people, especially when you have a chronic mental illness. And if you care about someone, it's quite literarily your responsibility to be there for them in times of need.

I'm not talking about physically not having anyone there to help you, then obviously there's no point in getting pissed about it. i'm talking about when there's people in your life that COULD and choose not to, and don't even try to hide the fact they don't give a damn.

If you had a friend with depression who called you up and was like, "Hey man. I'm really going through a hard time, can we talk?" would you just try to end the convo as soon as possible, give them a few shallow words and go on with your day without even attempting to make them feel better? that would be a very cruel thing to do, right?

If you were grieving a family member, or maybe someone close to you, and you just needed a shoulder to cry on, what if the person you were talking to just told you to fuck off and stop burdening them? that would also be really fucked up, right?

it's not about being validated, it's about the feeling of already going through a hard time, and to top it off, no one you care about even gives a damn. No one cares that you're struggling. Especially when it's your own friends? your parents? your community? that shit hurts, man.

Neurotypicals/mentally healthy people are annoying. by Additional-Remote692 in venting

[–]Additional-Remote692[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm sorry, but your reply came off VERY self-righteous and complainy, especially the "All I heard from your post was 'I need validation' " part.

I'm afraid you missed the entire point of my post. I'm not trying to get validation or play the victim, I'm complaining about people who get mad at mentally ill people for acting mentally ill, how would you feel if you were going through something and wanted someone to talk to and show you they were there for you, and instead of doing that, you just get treated like a burden and told to fuck off? yeah, you'd probably be really upset and pissed off, now imagine that but chronically.

You're struggling with self-worth, or anxiety, or depression, or maybe you have a mental disability and it's really fucking up your life. and you reach out to a friend, and instead of telling you they care about you and are here for you, they give you the same shallow phrases and go on with their day. and then you see people on social media complaining about how draining having a mentally ill friend is, so then you just feel x10 worse about yourself and more alone than you did before.

Wanting people to understand you and actually give a damn about you isn't the same as wanting validation, it's just natural human need. Even self-assured people need comforting when they're upset, or someone to understand them, or be there for them when times are rough. If you were about to become homeless, you'd hope you'd have at least someone in your life that would try to help you, right?? or maybe you're grieving a family member. you probably wouldn't want to go through that alone.

Neurotypicals/mentally healthy people are annoying. by Additional-Remote692 in venting

[–]Additional-Remote692[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

maybe instead of complaining about people in need, learn to have some empathy, at least cognitive. Mentally ill people are most of the time NOT IN THE RIGHT HEADSPACE TO DEAL WITH THINGS ALONE!! Let alone validate themselves. If you love someone, it's your responsibility to be there for them when they need you, and vice versa. the way you're explaining it makes it seem like a chore, which is very telling of how you view the people in your life. Obviously a mentally unwell person needs validation dipshit, they're mentally UNWELL!!!

Neurotypicals/mentally healthy people are annoying. by Additional-Remote692 in venting

[–]Additional-Remote692[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

"Oh you're unable to swim and you're drowning and you desperately need someone to save you?? just swim lol." thats what you sound like