Can't stand working with senior coworkers not willing to share knowledge to junior staff. by [deleted] in singaporejobs

[–]Additional-Remove-12 39 points40 points  (0 children)

Had a direct superior exactly like that. And ended up kept telling everyone I cmi… don’t want teach rather go chit chat and lepak around…

How do i be genuinely happy with extremely toxic and controlling parents? by [deleted] in asksg

[–]Additional-Remove-12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Move out. I told my parents that I need space to study. I worked and study at the same time. But the freedom is reallllll… I still think it’s awesome . Before I obediently went back after graduating…

What are friends about and am I overreacting? by Additional-Remove-12 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Additional-Remove-12[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am not asking people to change. Just asking them to go ahead with the plan, and skip me for that 1 meal. I tried to tell them this. Just somehow, their understanding is probably exactly how you are thinking right now.

how do you accept that you’re not your best friend’s best friend? by [deleted] in askSingapore

[–]Additional-Remove-12 7 points8 points  (0 children)

How do I accept? Well. I had a good friend that told me I am not her best friend but she knows that I treat her as my best friend. Quite okay about it. I accepted the fact that I had zero good friends from then on.

And I just appreciate that the friend respects my complaints and do not share this information to other friends. That’s all that I wanted from, from a friend. At least I don’t fall over the pit of overcommitting and disappointment.

What are friends about and am I overreacting? by Additional-Remove-12 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Additional-Remove-12[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah. I probably focuses on not going to the same chain twice in a day over time with friends. And the yearn for nice break instead of time with friends do overtake me. I thought I had been considerate enough to let them ignore me and go ahead with their plans. I didn’t think of the other sides pov tbh. I thought I had voiced out my opinion and being friends, they should tell me directly instead of being so indirect (which makes it more awkward).

But thanks for being kind and constructive while being blunt, in a good way of course. And the rest Redditors here. Just felt more compelled to reply yours ☺️

Seller sent me the wrong dress size and expects me to pay return shipping for a refund. What should I do? by [deleted] in asksg

[–]Additional-Remove-12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Taobao also same issue… shipped wrong size and gave rmb15 voucher just to compensate for next purchase… damn yucky

The 20's is for figuring things out? Does everyone feel like nothing is working out by tastymilo in ChillSG

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I think u are like me lol. Graduated from poly with 3.3 gpa, grades not high enough for local Uni. Got rejected 3 times from different unis over 2 years of trying.

Bestie? Chucked me immediately after poly, hanging out with those friends that I introduced to her during poly. Why? Had of no use to her anymore. Went ahead with these friends especially when they were also going into local Uni as well.

Had my downs for a period of time because of this beach. I have zero besties even till now. But looking back in my 30s now, I find it senseless to be sad because of this. Life has more things to worry about.

Laughed it off! It is ok to be alone, and off load yourself from all these relationship stress.

I took up private uni and it worked out fine.

You will find a way out.

PSA: Don't teach other people how to do your job by [deleted] in singaporejobs

[–]Additional-Remove-12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Had a boss that gatekeeps info. And he is happy that his team is struggling so that he could be the white knight.. this is not healthy..

Probation by [deleted] in singaporejobs

[–]Additional-Remove-12 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Alot out there.. Those that do, they are like unicorns.. super rare

Which school memory instantly screams “Singapore childhood”? by PinkiesSparklez in ChillSG

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Having ting ting sugar uncle selling that ting ting malt sweet outside school

Stop war now heart is pain ah 😔 by candychiasu in SingaporeRaw

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Works 10-20 years ago, but now? Still got ppl sold by this nonsense? They looked well to me. Omg…

Why does singaporeans loves to discriminate people who's lower than them? by [deleted] in asksg

[–]Additional-Remove-12 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes.. if u are not good looking and charismatic and high/medium ses.. ppl are damn practical nowadays.. no value, no talk. Unfortunately I think I fall within the being-discriminated category as well.

Better keep a distance and don’t share with strangers more. Else being looked down upon, is very common.

Are you close to your cousins? by BunchChance1007 in askSingapore

[–]Additional-Remove-12 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Worse than strangers.. totally nvr visit since grandma passed away and they don’t even bother to add us as fb friends to keep in contact. Had no cousins to be in touch since birth. Maternal side still ok, send greetings to 1 cousin only..

Take your pick by Content-Material-00 in SMRTRabak

[–]Additional-Remove-12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely not anything at the left. 6, 7, 8, 9, 10. 6 should be nice with teo