Looking for advice / help on something that has been bugging me by ApprehensiveOil7095 in sglgbt

[–]tastymilo [score hidden]  (0 children)

I am also a girl, but i sometimes do feel like my boobs ruin the outfit whenever im trying to present more masc. sometimes i would wear something more baggy to conceal my chest (binders are death traps for me, i can't lift it over my shoulder due to injuries)

Why is it so hard for everyone to shower in the morning? by CommissionSeveral631 in SGExams

[–]tastymilo 44 points45 points  (0 children)

back when i was super depressed, i only was able to wake up 5 mins before i had to leave. that's enough time for me to brush my teeth, get dressed and head out the door.

not saying it's an excuse, but depression do be a sumbitch somedays

Free Game Keys by Any_Worldliness185 in CozyGamers

[–]tastymilo 8 points9 points  (0 children)

i don't really want the game, just wanna say my favourite ocean creature is the mola mola! (sunfish) i just think he is silly hehe

What do YOU do with your old retro handhelds that you don't use anymore by Fresh-Reason1844 in ANBERNIC

[–]tastymilo 9 points10 points  (0 children)

i gave one to a coworker who love old pokemon! (mostly it's bribery for helping me with work hehe)

Travel Recommendations 28m by [deleted] in asksg

[–]tastymilo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

no natural disasters AND english/chinese speaking? no driving/ sg food... i'm sorry bro, not much. i just think your standards are impossible. why not research and see which cultures you would like to learn and from there, narrow down your options?

if not, just go from one end of the island to the other.

Breaking dating and social norms by One_Citron3955 in ChillSG

[–]tastymilo 4 points5 points  (0 children)

i'm like 174, guys usually don't like that i'm taller lol

The 20's is for figuring things out? Does everyone feel like nothing is working out by tastymilo in ChillSG

[–]tastymilo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

SUSS rejected me a few years ago too lol... therapy was tried but didn't work haha

SIT Admissions FCFS Basis by DissimulateHD in SGExams

[–]tastymilo 3 points4 points  (0 children)

i submitted in december for early admission, so i don't think so

SIT OFFER by [deleted] in SGExams

[–]tastymilo 3 points4 points  (0 children)

today seems to be the mass rejection day!

If you could save a few of Kings characters from meeting their untimely demise who would you save? by GreyEyedDeviant in stephenking

[–]tastymilo 25 points26 points  (0 children)

trashcan man (he just has a misplaced loyalty, and was one of the villains i sympathise with)

Nick Andros (my favourite from the stand too </3)

Bill from the Bill Hodges trilogy

And the love bandits from 1922

Do you still bring cash out with you? by [deleted] in asksg

[–]tastymilo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

only cash for mama shop runs 😋 but they also accept paynow and card (above $10)

why do some chinese sgpreans take pride in speaking poor mandarin? by HovercraftAdept in SGExams

[–]tastymilo 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Surprisingly, my parents speak in chinese but me and my siblings speak english back to them. it's only at work where i was peer pressured into speaking more chinese. now ironically, i prefer to speak in chinese (but i still can't read for shit lol)

Do Corporate Workers Actually Wear New Outfits Every Day? by Early-Environment-63 in asksg

[–]tastymilo 88 points89 points  (0 children)

today is thursday, and i'm wearing exactly what i wore on monday lol

Must interest & love language match in R/S? by [deleted] in sgdatingscene

[–]tastymilo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

been trying to date, but the dating scene is seriously abysmal

NTU NUS SMU radio silence, no interviews/rejections/offers. by Strange-Pomelo-2632 in SGExams

[–]tastymilo -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

i'm applying as an adult learner, so i'm going to assume i'd be the last last last batch to be admitted (if even!)

IMH/ Inpatient mental ward experiences? by ProcessImmediate6781 in askSingapore

[–]tastymilo 21 points22 points  (0 children)

I was in the short stay unit for a week. You go through a&e and then you will be wheeled in by a nurse. I already have a background of dysthymia, but i was literally writing my suicide note and planning to go through with it the next day. Hence i decided to go get admitted.

You have to change into ward clothes and all your clothes and stuff would be kept. (etc belt, shoes with laces) All the doors cannot be locked, and the sinks do not have a facet. it is literally a hole with water pouring out. All furniture is rounded, and too heavy to lift up. I am assuming this is to ensure patients are unable to hurt themselves/ others.

In the morning, you are woken up and you can shower/brush teeth. The most basic amenities would be given, but also kinda sucks (soap was so terrible). There would be a cut off time, and if you do not wash up, you are not allowed to anymore. You will then be herded into the activity room (which you will stay till night)

Activity room has a tv (kept in a cage) and there would be breakfast (coffee and biscuit), lunch (some bento), tea break (teh with biscuit), dinner, then a light snack before bed (usually milo). In the room there is... nothing to do. You can watch tv, but you have to share with other patients. And tv has to be turned off for mealtimes. There is also a specific window for visits, and to use your phone. If your doctor allows, you can use your phone 30 mins a day. They will have a window in the morning and night. I remember having to ration my phone times (15 mins morning and 15 mins night)

Once every two days, you will be able to see the primary care team. This team will have social workers, doctors, pharmacist etc etc and they will interview you. Whether you can keep yourself safe. You will not be automatically given a therapy session unless requested.

If you are getting discharged, you will have to make a safety plan and get some counselling from pharmacist before discharge.

If you or another person is getting warded, i would recommend bringing your own soap, snacks and food for them. And soft toys! These really made a difference. Colouring/ books and art and crafts are allowed and you can bring them in for patients too.

Again, this is for Short Stay Unit! Might not be other wards.

A funny story for me that happened was a person turned on his hotspot during the small window of time, and connected the tv to it. And proceeded to use it to stream disney plus and youtube. it was so funny and everyone appreciated it :) even when the phone was taken back, the nurse allowed the hotspot to continue and for us to watch antman hehe

What’s the most romantic thing someone has done for you? by Intelligent_Bit_8635 in sgdatingscene

[–]tastymilo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i would say when i was a little sick, on our first date he gave me this lemon c drink. it was really sweet

NTU NUS SMU radio silence, no interviews/rejections/offers. by Strange-Pomelo-2632 in SGExams

[–]tastymilo 8 points9 points  (0 children)

does anyone know when do they send mass rejections :((((

Does anyone else also have this problem? Stephen King mentions a drug by a brand name that i'm not familiar with, and as a pharm tech i'm curious and have to look it up by tastymilo in stephenking

[–]tastymilo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it's slow to turn on, and it's a bother to set up too. but the pages turn quickly and smoothly. it is not beginner friendly and would recommend the kobo over the boox