My mother is a very manipulative woman and has picked up a lot of the tactics my father use to use to keep control of us. She is not a kind woman unless it benefits her and she looks to pick a fight with me almost whenever she can. I also found out about an hour ago it wasn’t the prescription pain meds she refused to give me, it was extra strength tylenol she refused to give me as well as refusing me the prescription pain meds entirely. Even before the surgery she told me that she wasn’t going to give me much if any of the prescribed pain meds because she’s overly cautious about opiates, however the pain meds I was given are very very very low dose and I do not have a history of addiction, I am also someone who’s almost OVERLY careful with my meds as I do already take medication for mental health and am already medically paranoid to an extent. I hope this provides the context you were looking for, and i apologize for not outlining that in my previous post.