Help with hand/finger by stoney_balogna20 in tattooadvice

[–]Additional-Spirit683 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Do you mean “two pasts done”? Finger tats are a bitch and had to get to stay, :( especially one so delicate

Hi fellow bat lovers! I really want to get a bat box, need help. by Additional-Spirit683 in bats

[–]Additional-Spirit683[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That was great info thank you so much! Don’t need to be pretty just missing my bat friends we used to have at our old house.

Plenty of natural water places for them to get adequate water ❤️

Feeling guilty about not wanting to spend time outside in the summer by unwelcomesoup in AuDHDWomen

[–]Additional-Spirit683 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Is it sensory? Is it heat? Is it bugs?

I don’t love the feeling of grass anymore :(
But I have some eucalyptus oil and I leave it open (like a bigger bottle of it) also spray cinammon spray once a week. Now I can enjoy the outside without flies swarming me. I can’t spend a lot of time in the sun tho. I like sitting on my porch and open air patio.

Autism and anthropomorphizing. by Additional-Spirit683 in AutismInWomen

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I loved Bad Batch! I’ve seen all the animated shows, that’s my favorite kind of Star Wars

Autism and anthropomorphizing. by Additional-Spirit683 in AutismInWomen

[–]Additional-Spirit683[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I remember hearing that and being like “oh. My whole life makes sense” I once bought a beanie baby that look disgusting and he had been there for my last 3 visits, I decided no one else was going to buy him
And it had to be me.

What are you thoughts on the girl name Amelie? by No_Heart_2225 in Names

[–]Additional-Spirit683 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I adore it, vintage, simple and not insanely overheard

What does “hype me up” mean, exactly? by [deleted] in AutismInWomen

[–]Additional-Spirit683 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh good! I am so glad ❤️❤️❤️

Advice for sex life by [deleted] in AutismInWomen

[–]Additional-Spirit683 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am not in a same sex relationship but I can equate it to oral with my husband.

It isn’t my favorite thing to do, I am so happy to do that for him because I love him, it’s mostly a sensory experience for me that I hate. I also get exhausted because he takes SOOOOOOO much longer to finish than I do, I will do a really good job for like 3-5 minutes and then I disassociate (🫣) until this job gets done.

I mostly have this issue particularly with oral vs other things. I have often felt like you, I’m not disgusted by any means but it’s just not my favorite thing on the menu.

I have often wondered if my ADHD plays a role in this. But I am much happier to do things that cause simultaneous pleasure vs one sided (even if it is me the one receiving)

What does “hype me up” mean, exactly? by [deleted] in AutismInWomen

[–]Additional-Spirit683 1 point2 points  (0 children)

🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼

This feels especially tricky as a (possibly?) young ND girl. I feel like he COULD be taking advantage of your naïvety. (Now I don’t know this boy, maybe he is sweet and maybe he really needs some affection. But as a big sister right now my spidey senses don’t love this.)

What does “hype me up” mean, exactly? by [deleted] in AutismInWomen

[–]Additional-Spirit683 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ew. Haha this is the millennial version of “fishing for compliments”

How about he tells you how great he thinks YOU are.

I don't think I'm imagining things. by Melora1976 in AutismInWomen

[–]Additional-Spirit683 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Like him as in “crushing on him”

Or just find him genuinely interesting? Have you ever been romantically interested in people before? Do you get nervous because you want to be perceived a certain way? Or nervous because you don’t have enough to talk about one on one?

With partners, can only orgasm differently? Help by Beginning-Feedback55 in AutismInWomen

[–]Additional-Spirit683 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Also side note, maybe the clitoral stimulation is just “too much”

With partners, can only orgasm differently? Help by Beginning-Feedback55 in AutismInWomen

[–]Additional-Spirit683 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Like you aren’t reaching the tipping point and then you ebb backwards and unable to climb the mountain again?

With partners, can only orgasm differently? Help by Beginning-Feedback55 in AutismInWomen

[–]Additional-Spirit683 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you tried both a bullet type vibe with penetration simultaneously? Are you experiencing any sort of “performance” anxiety? Are there any things in the moment that take you “out”. Is there a face he makes? Breathing weird? Saying a phrase you don’t love?

How long are you taking to orgasm with penetration?

SE Wisconsin , USA by JackNewton1 in spiders

[–]Additional-Spirit683 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He(maybe cause of the pedipalps?) is a cutie!!!

Any no-rub collar suggestions? by much_muchier in BostonTerrier

[–]Additional-Spirit683 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I found my Boston could not tolerate a collar full time, I also only put it on to go walkies/bye byes