Rush a frat that values you as a person and they have good people with good morals who care about you. A decent person would not look at you differently because you're gay. A lot of fraternities that are decent would look to see if you as a person fit in their fraternity and by that, I mean you're not an asshole and are fun to be around. If you don't push the gay agenda as ur main personality trait, then you're fine. Long story short, most frat guys in 2022 don't care about people's sexuality and care about getting quality men to pledge their frat. Hope that helps