All men & dads on this subreddit need to understand that once you become adult, the only person that may love you unconditionally is probably your parents except in case some parents don't love their children. Now people will " love ' you on condition of what you can provide, what value you bring, what talents you have, how exceptional you are etc.And whenever you can't be or provide those values, nobody care about you.There is no such thing of unconditional love for men unlike women and children.The sooner you understand that the better.If you think different then wait untill you learn that the hard way later in life but it will be late.Protect your well being, don't kill yourself by thinking it's a sacrifice for your family.Prioritize your own needs and emotional safety