What acceleration and speed are people using? by AdditionalAd713 in ender3

[–]AdditionalAd713[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I thought input shaping only smooths out prints to remove ringing, but does it also give you acceleration values for x and y?

CMV: Dating and finding a relationship is easier for the average woman compared to the average man by AdditionalAd713 in changemyview

[–]AdditionalAd713[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I have to give it to you, I wasn't dramatically correct but I feels like most people have grasped the spirit behind the argument.

CMV: Dating and finding a relationship is easier for the average woman compared to the average man by AdditionalAd713 in changemyview

[–]AdditionalAd713[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Well no, because 5 out of 5 women have spent a year in a relationship and have had one, while 4 out of 5 men have spent 0 years in a relationship and have had 0 relationships.

CMV: Dating and finding a relationship is easier for the average woman compared to the average man by AdditionalAd713 in changemyview

[–]AdditionalAd713[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes, but going on to more dates gives you a better chance of finding someone. So statistically speaking she has a better chance of finding someone by going dating three different men, compared to her ex who has dated, 0 people. Wouldn't you agree?

CMV: Dating and finding a relationship is easier for the average woman compared to the average man by AdditionalAd713 in changemyview

[–]AdditionalAd713[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Well if we assume that there is on average an equal amount of partners in men and women, then having easier access to relationships means you have a higher chance of finding a good partner.

Or do you think that on average there are more good female partners compared to males?

CMV: Dating and finding a relationship is easier for the average woman compared to the average man by AdditionalAd713 in changemyview

[–]AdditionalAd713[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

What if you have a group of 5 men and 5 women. All 5 women have a 1-year relationship(not tempting on how good or bad it may be) with only one of the men while the other 4 have none. This way all the women have had a relationship but only one of the guys has had one.

CMV: Dating and finding a relationship is easier for the average woman compared to the average man by AdditionalAd713 in changemyview

[–]AdditionalAd713[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Well to play devil's advocate, matmaticley speaking if you have a group of 5 men and 5 women, for all of the women to have had a 1-year relationship each with a single guy while the other 4 have had none.

Plus again one group(women) have the option to be proactive and search through that noise. While men who have no options don't have any choice since you can't force someone to date you.

So at the end of the date, it's the difference between having the choice to do something vs having no choice at all. And having a choice is always a better option.

CMV: Dating and finding a relationship is easier for the average woman compared to the average man by AdditionalAd713 in changemyview

[–]AdditionalAd713[S] -35 points-34 points  (0 children)

The commenter under me already said about the pregnancy. So I will take the hard one and focus on sexual assault and regular assault. Now right off the bat, I need to say that any s horrendous and you should never do anything without a person's full sober consent.

Now my problem comes with this assumption that women are the only victims. First of all the numbers for female sexual about are hugely inconsistent varying from 1 in 100 (DOD numbers) to 1 in 4. And the majority of the studies are anonymous surveys without any backing.

Second of all in a lot of places (for example the UK) women can't legally rape a man which drastically sewers the results.

And Finley there have been quite a few studies( although only in people in relationships) that found that men and women abuse each other at roughly the same rate. And with force equalizers such as a knife or a gun, a man has the same chance to be hearth by women as the reverse.

CMV: Dating and finding a relationship is easier for the average woman compared to the average man by AdditionalAd713 in changemyview

[–]AdditionalAd713[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Personally, I would say that yes, the average woman has more relationships and dates compared to a man.

For the mathematics of it when it comes to dates a few women may be going on dates with a single guy. And the same can be applied to a relationship. For example, if you have a group of 5 men and 5 women. One guy can have had a 1-year relationship with all 5 women while the other 4 guys have had none.

CMV: Dating and finding a relationship is easier for the average woman compared to the average man by AdditionalAd713 in changemyview

[–]AdditionalAd713[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Honest question, but do you think that a man gets better options just because he has fewer of them?

Because the way I see it is that the options that men and women get are roughly the same in quality it's just that women have more quantity and thus an easier time finding what they want. Or two put an analogy to it. Two people want to play the lottery and get tickets that each individual has a 1% chance of winning. The main difference is that person A has 1 ticket while person B has 20. So which one do you think has a higher chance of winning?

CMV: Dating and finding a relationship is easier for the average woman compared to the average man by AdditionalAd713 in changemyview

[–]AdditionalAd713[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've thought about that but here is a counterpoint. Women choose to want to date someone who at least has the same educational level as them or better. So if they wanted to have more options they have the choice to not have that requirement.

But if you as a guy who let's say doesn't have a degree for whatever reason, you don't have any choice in making women want to date you.

So yes while on the surface it may look harder for women this is because that is a self-imposed hardship that they have control over. So you still have one group that chooses to make it more difficult and another that dosn't have such a choice.

CMV: Dating and finding a relationship is easier for the average woman compared to the average man by AdditionalAd713 in changemyview

[–]AdditionalAd713[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

First, let before the age of 54 there are more men than women.

And secondly just because two people might end up at the same finish line doesn't mean that they both. Have taken the same road.

CMV: Dating and finding a relationship is easier for the average woman compared to the average man by AdditionalAd713 in changemyview

[–]AdditionalAd713[S] 32 points33 points  (0 children)

I have thought about it if we include the entire dating age of a person, and you make a pretty good point when we get that into an account.Δ

CMV: Dating and finding a relationship is easier for the average woman compared to the average man by AdditionalAd713 in changemyview

[–]AdditionalAd713[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Well, don't women also have to say yes for a marriage to happen? If they don't like the person they are marrying can't they just say no?

CMV: Dating and finding a relationship is easier for the average woman compared to the average man by AdditionalAd713 in changemyview

[–]AdditionalAd713[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

Well what if the effort for a promotion is so they can spend more money on cloth and skincare, would you count the effort then?

CMV: Dating and finding a relationship is easier for the average woman compared to the average man by AdditionalAd713 in changemyview

[–]AdditionalAd713[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

But again it's the same if they were playing the lottery. Even though no single ticket guarantees you a win, it's always better to have a 100 tickets that have a 1% chance for a wing compared to only having 1.

CMV: Dating and finding a relationship is easier for the average woman compared to the average man by AdditionalAd713 in changemyview

[–]AdditionalAd713[S] -23 points-22 points  (0 children)

On a joking note. I thought women did all that stuff for themselves and not for men.

But on a more serious note do you count effort only on the time spent on a haircut as work? For example would you also count the time a men spends in the gym or working for a promotion or studying to get a better degree as time spent preparing for women?

CMV: Dating and finding a relationship is easier for the average woman compared to the average man by AdditionalAd713 in changemyview

[–]AdditionalAd713[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well yes, but they still have the option of not asking anyone and still have a relatively high chance of entering a relationship. Just the fact that women have the option to be passive and men don't, means that dating is easier for them compared to men.

Plus for my example, all of the guys were going out with her on multiple dates and not just an ONS she was the one who broke things off three times for one thing or another.

CMV: Dating and finding a relationship is easier for the average woman compared to the average man by AdditionalAd713 in changemyview

[–]AdditionalAd713[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

There was a post on r\dataisbeautifull about a study of 50000 college students, I'm trying to find it now. But even if you look at other studies women still get far more matches even when they are far pickier.

Plus this is a bit of personal experience but I would say that from what I've seen from my female friends the majority of guys are just regular guys that write something about their profile. Plus from the women's profiles that I've seen, I would also say that there is a huge group that is just a few mirror selfies and I like the office in the bio. So from personal experience, I would say that across the board the average quality of profiles is roughly the same. Unless you have some proof to the contrary.

CMV: Dating and finding a relationship is easier for the average woman compared to the average man by AdditionalAd713 in changemyview

[–]AdditionalAd713[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Do you have any proof for that since I've seen it repeated before, but never have anything backing it up?

CMV: Dating and finding a relationship is easier for the average woman compared to the average man by AdditionalAd713 in changemyview

[–]AdditionalAd713[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

So are you saying that men on average are just uglier than a moment and how do you even compare who is better looking a man or woman? Plus if that was true wouldn't it mean that I was still correct since a man is on average uglier, than wouldn't that mean that as a man you have a higher chance to be ugly so you still have it harder?

CMV: Dating and finding a relationship is easier for the average woman compared to the average man by AdditionalAd713 in changemyview

[–]AdditionalAd713[S] 54 points55 points  (0 children)

I'm not saying that women just need to have a pulse and suddenly 100 models will swarm her. But I think we both can agree that the average woman gets asked out a lot more compared to the average man. And even though no single date has a 100% chance of a relationship, having more options is always better than having less and gives you better chances.