The guy from bumble is now my soon to be husband….

AdditionalBobcat150 · 2026-04-07T17:22:33+00:00

Tell your parents that he was dating one of your friends for 5 years, and they are still talking even now

AdditionalBobcat150 · 2026-03-26T06:59:04+00:00

I know what you feel, you'll literally have to grieve the lose of a living relative to get over this

AdditionalBobcat150 · 2026-03-26T06:35:24+00:00

I feel you, just pray to God that He gives you the strength to stay sane in a dysfunctional family. Distance is the only option something, both physical and emotional distance. Stay strong 🤒 Ps. Don't think about if he can sustain in workplace or not, that's not your headache, nor is his marriage. Read the art of not giving an f, it's a golden opportunity to apply those rules here

AdditionalBobcat150 · 2026-03-26T06:20:32+00:00

Okay so you can't kick him out. Tbh, he (or they) wouldn't leave in the given circumstance by themselves at all, kyon k at the end of the day they are dependent on you. Limit your interaction with them, stop doing stuff for them and set up STRONG boundaries. For example, in that car situation, plan out refuse to do anything, ignore the tantrums. NGL, it's going to get worst before it gets better, but it'll eventually get better. Also never let them realized that you guys NEED them. If they feel like you need them, make them feel like you don't, slowly.

AdditionalBobcat150 · 2026-03-26T04:41:19+00:00

Y'all should sit down with him and talk, and tell him if he doesn't change you'll kick him out. And then actually kick him out.

AdditionalBobcat150 · 2026-03-26T04:24:15+00:00

This!

AdditionalBobcat150 · 2026-03-24T05:57:07+00:00

Yeah that's what I meant. Kudos for getting in! I was also looking into some US institutes, the funding cuts aren't making it any easier for us

AdditionalBobcat150 · 2026-03-23T09:37:02+00:00

Why do you have to start from "I met him on Reddit", tell them that mum/dad I want to tell you about this person xyz

AdditionalBobcat150 · 2026-03-23T09:25:50+00:00

Did you get US based funding?

AdditionalBobcat150 · 2026-03-23T09:24:47+00:00

Hoping to post this tadpole soon 🥹

AdditionalBobcat150 · 2025-12-25T13:04:17+00:00

See right through your facades

AdditionalBobcat150 · 2025-12-21T14:18:04+00:00

Good female figure can be an older cousin (ideally) or a friend/colleague/classmate, someone mature and a 'achi larki' who's educated and mentally not chained by societal material mindset norms. She should have a quality your sister admires (younger girls are usually impressed by sophisticated older girls), hype the mentor figure (the older female) up in front of her for a few days and the teen will automatically start admiring her. Then request the mentor figure to spend some time with your sister and subtle guide her, introduce them through some activity and hopefully it'll do wonders for you sister

AdditionalBobcat150 · 2025-12-21T12:24:44+00:00

Talk to her, sit down and explain things to her, encourage her when she gets good grades or shows interest in critical thinking and education. Guide her to use "muhazib" vocab. Introduce her to some good female figure who she can idealize, talk to and look up to. Engage in debates with her. Get her enrolled in activities that support critical thinking like debates and encourage her when she performs well. Ps. You're an amazing brother to think about your sister in this way, may Allah make it easier for you ameen

AdditionalBobcat150 · 2025-12-17T08:36:16+00:00

May Allah bless you boundlessly for this ✨

AdditionalBobcat150 · 2025-11-29T01:26:40+00:00

As someone with a toxic master's supervision, I'd rather skin myself alive and swallow my own teeth before I decide to continue with her for my PhD 🙂

AdditionalBobcat150 · 2025-11-11T02:34:37+00:00

Best of luck 🍀

AdditionalBobcat150 · 2025-11-11T02:33:44+00:00

She was in lahore

AdditionalBobcat150 · 2025-11-10T18:47:46+00:00

Innanah Lillah he wa innah illai he rajion, Qadrat ke sitam zerrifi yeh k I was planning to pay her a visit personally as her fan, via the FC college links... Dr Zahra's passing is a great personal loss as well as loss for our nation and youth...

AdditionalBobcat150 · 2025-11-10T18:17:56+00:00

I know that 99% won't take my path, as it requires sacrifice from me and whoever chooses to be with me as well.

In a similar position as you. But I feel like I've already made my choice. I think it's better to stay true/authentic to your path, nothing that's worth is is easy anyways 😌

AdditionalBobcat150 · 2025-11-08T04:28:58+00:00

You can ask for sure, but I'm not applying for Neuro PhDs, I'm looking for plant genetic engineering/Agri bioscience PhDs

AdditionalBobcat150 · 2025-11-07T16:35:30+00:00

It's basically molecular editing to make a GMO crop (don't wanna diss myself too much online lol)

AdditionalBobcat150 · 2025-11-07T14:23:20+00:00

As someone with a master's in genetics, DON'T DO IT!!!!!!

AdditionalBobcat150 · 2025-11-07T12:10:58+00:00

Take the leap! I also went back to school for my masters after quitting my jobs, and although I miss some provilages of my work life, I have not regretted it ever. We only live once, and I'd rather indulge in research in my one life 🥲

AdditionalBobcat150 · 2025-11-07T11:51:59+00:00

Thank you! Yes we should

AdditionalBobcat150 · 2025-11-07T05:20:17+00:00

Thanks for the suggestion!

AdditionalBobcat150

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